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How my exes made me become a good girl gone bad (Page 3)
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You came here looking for sympathy and there were enough women and simps here to give it to you. Now it’s time for a real man to give you a good strong dose of honesty. You don’t deserve any sympathy. There were probably good guys standing on the sideline waiting for you to give them the time of day but of course you didn’t because you were too busy dating jerk offs. Your fault lady, and you deserve to be left alone because now your feelings of inadequacy and not being good enough (which you aren’t by the way) are payback for bitch shielding. We don’t want you thots anymore. Bye.
You aren't very different than her, you both used your experiences an excuse to be a miserable human beings.
"Real men" don't spout their bitterness to anyone who'll listen... how does what you just said make you any less of a simp?
@Carefuloutthere And he's coward enough to keep anonymous.
@Jean-Marie_Céline It's always the way
How do you know if those guys were not one of those nice guys that revealed it's true colors after?
You are assuming they were bad boys but you have no idea how things went.
@thisismyopinion that guy has responded to a few of my posts too and he was just as nasty. I think he’s just angry at all women and tbh I’m surprised he is even still allowed to post here
@silvermoon84 shut up cunt. I’m nasty to you and all you post thirty used up wretched old bitches because you failed to fulfill your duty as a woman (which is to marry, bear and raise children and please your husband). You are NOT supposed to be man’s equal and someone needs to know you bitches back in your place.
Carefuloutthere, what bitterness are you talking about? I have a very old fashioned belief about women and I believe that women who don’t marry are fucking useless. Nope. I’m not a simp. Simp stands for sucker idolizing mediocre pussy, the last two words being what you will be in a few years. Sit down sweetheart!
Thisismyopinion and jean-Marie, you two are both the definition of simps. Quit defending these bitches!
Simps. I am a far better person than you and OP put together.
Miserable excuses of human beings.
Yes women are supposed to be equal to us. They are not better and they are not worse. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership not a ownership.
You are right. That is YOUR opinion. And since the world doesn't spin around you, people will have different views. You have every right to see a not married women as useless. And I have every right to thing your sick and ego are the size of a grape because you need to boss women around or you don't feel like a man. So sit down over there bro!
Oh I love to be called that and white knight. You women haters I always get a kick out of annoying you! 😂
I don't hate women. They are more than our wife's. That is my opinion. So you women haters and me bump heads and I love to argue with you. Keep going please this is going to be fun!
Simp, as far as I knew, was short for simpering, & that's why i used it in reference.
There are plenty of women who made the choice to marry and raise a family... what you're actually bitter about is that no one has decided to do that with you... and somehow, that's everybody's fault but yours.
I have a little boy, I also have a job, and that's fine. I'm not any better or worse as a person for the choices that I've made.
No one becomes what they are purely on the merits of interaction with only one person, no matter how profound...
That being said, another being's suffrage is not a license to debauchery because the same force holds both victim and victimizer accountable for their own choices.
You are way too frustrated and also you are in the break up phase so this thing is natural to drive you crazy also your exes made you become like this so let not that frustration eat you up from inside also one thing try being single for a while spend time with your friends family and yes if possible try some yoga but don't loose your bitchy attitude towards the one you were frustrated also just one last thing screw them who just used you as a doll.
A wise man once said " The difination of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expect different results"
Maybe you not only need to change the the type of men you go for but change your social circle and create new options in your life.
Actually that's the definition of Insanity!!!
@Moonchild714 yes you are right
That wise man was Albert Einstein.
And he suffered from Insanity...
I genuinely think watching good will hunting would help you. That movie is all about someone who's been emotionally broken and pushes away anyone new coming into his life to protect his emotional health when in reality all he's doing is hurting it. He pushes people away so they can't hurt him first and that's what you're doing. There are good people in this world who won't hurt you, who will give you romantic stories to one day tell your kids/grandkids, but you can't give up.
People become what they are because of what they choose to do with life experiences. I take the bad ones and decide, "I will avoid that." while not painting everyone who shares the same superficial characteristics as a likely source of the same types of bad experiences.
I'm sorry. I hate that people hurt others so much.
I've never broken a heart (I don't think), but I have had mine broken plenty. I was in the same situation of not caring. However, I internalized and avoided situations that could turn into anything more than friendships. I don't know why, but it ended up helping me in the long run.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you can find a guy that respects and deserves you.
Don't be so easily influenced by others.
Be you, and let him be your partner, but never change who you are for anyone else.
Not the easiest thing to do, but for sure one of the most valuable.
This good girl idea is common morality. Do as you like, have sex as much as you like, break any heart you want. In fact I am looking for a wild woman by my side. So there are guys for your type as well you can love.
Enjoy having lots of sex with lots of people. Its better than love. You can make a career out of it and be truly free.
Perhaps the men you choose suck. You fall for their bull. You need to pick different types of guys. Try some with morals.
Clearly, someone trusted several people way too much too early and got hurt. I would suggest you refrain from intimacy until you really know who your dealing with. Also here's a thought, you could wait until after marriage.
Dont let any man affect your emotions.
Dont pretend to be something you are not.
You might scare a good man away.
be yourself and stop pretending *IFGAF* , boys can be absolute cunts but you gotta be strong... hope everything works well for you...
I think you just want to be bad. I had a moment like that then I got over myself and made a habit of being careful of the men that I chose to be with.
Never broken a girls heart, but got mine broken a few times, and I can very much relate to how you feel and some thoughts you have.
I've gotten things like: "what happened to good old you?"
"Good old me got used/stomped on and left behind by people like you"
Is generally what I wanna tell her, but just can't :/
Girl, I've had my heart broken too and many times but I don't use that as an excuse to become miserable. What I did become is a little more guarded.
No one makes you turn into a "bad girl" because YOU make your own decisions. You are the one who gave up and adopted nihilism. Everyone has a low time in their life. The good news is you can still change and make things right. You need to be introspective or you will never find the answer as to why your relationship (s) didn't work out.
Nobody can make you do anything. You chose to become this person plain and simple and you're using past experiences to alleviate you from any responsibilty for your actions.
You think you're the first person to habe strong feelings for someone and them not retuen it? Welcome to real life.
If you're as loving as you say you are then i'd guess you're dating outside your league. Because guys don't do that to women unless they know they can do better.
Nope, never did that. They were the ones who thought they could do so much better. Then after me, they get lonely and are not happy with what they can get. Unfortunately for them, I moved on.