Revenge on my ex! How I put my lying cheating ex in her place. (Page 2)

[outside_Toronto]

Break ups are never easy no matter the reason. I'm sure child (ren) make it more of a challenge.
I do believe no matter how you feel, revenge is a complete waste of your limited time. Everyone gets what's coming to them in life no matter their circumstances. Her included. Your time is better spent moving on, learning from the experience and the past and applying the lesson (s) to whatever comes next for you.

[Apple1996]

Seems like your still not over her If your this mad about everything

[Strong_male]

she's been beating my child, give me an std, cheating on me, humiliating me around town, lying and still lies, disrespected my family and shamed everyone honestly if she deliberately hit me with her car tomorrow I wouldn't be shocked at all lol
Anyway it was important that she learn that she can't behave as she did without consequences and more importantly that she can't assault our son, in fact she was lucky I didn't kick her around the room.

[Strong_male]

Yeah I'm still not over her and find it hard to accept this is the person she is.

[Apple1996]

Eh well no one is a completely good person. We all do bad things and stuff we regret. She might have been going theu a hard time or had a hard life so she acted out by doing all these things.

[KrakenAttackin]

You need to file a Domestic Violence charge against her. Anytime she does something threatening to you or the child, you need to document, document, document.

[KrakenAttackin]

Way to justify child abuse!

[cicchis0]

Stop wasting energy on her, get away from her and make your life good again.

[Strong_male]

That's the plan.

[areta67]

Girls heartburn when they notice you've moved on. Like what if you do a show and she dont hive a damn u will be the clown. Move on... She doesn't love you? ok fine but you must love yourself. She doesn't need you? ok fine but you need yourself most

[rogue36]

I understand u wantin revenge for d shit she put u through but honestly, she ain't worth it. Im glad ur man enough to see n hold ur end tho. It must hv been so hard 4 u pickin up d slack. But i get u. Dnt waste ur time on her anymore, she isn't worth it. D day will cm 4 her soon.

[Nadia16]

Forget about her that's the best revenge. live your life

[Strong_male]

there's a child involved so she needs to start acting right. The kid shouldn't grow up with a neglectful abusive mother sitting in her own filth all day ignoring him while sexting on her phone.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, agreed. Pay a few "refugees" to disappear her. You and your son will have a better life.

[JamesBlackDragon]

I'm not about revenge I would just leave and take my child and if you have evidence of all that she did you will definitely win the court case for custody

[Strong_male]

Afraid not. I called social services and she admitted to what she did. Next day she had the child back but only if supervised by a family member and the child is only allowed at her parents. I get him at weekends. The courts and social services always side with the mother.

[JamesBlackDragon]

That sucks maybe if you got a lawyer and took it to trial you could have won

[Strong_male]

Nah the law works differently here.

[JamesBlackDragon]

I see sorry to hear that

[KrakenAttackin]

Where is here? Also, don't just give up --- spend a few bucks and talk to an attorney for one fucking hour!

[Taylor_C]

Just leave it. Time to turn the pages and start on a new chapter in the book that is your life. Trying to get revenge is just pas it shows you're not able to move on.

[BagoH]

Bro she's a mess already. Look at her, dumb cunt got chlamydia, got no love from people around her, her parents know what skank she is. Her life is ruined already, it's just a matter of time before she does crack and dies of overdose...

[Dchrls78104]

Ultimately the best revenge is to move on and leave her in the snakepit she has dug for herself. You did say her loverboy gave her chlamydia, right?

[Strong_male]

... and me or she gave us both or whatever.
We've kid so she needed to be taught a lesson and to be forcefully encouraged to act right.

[MzAsh]

Just move on and quit messing with her. Don’t prove that you’re also a shitty person by revenge. Just move on.

[whitehide]

You need to leave her and try to get custody of your son, before it fucks you and your son up completely. Pregnancies and child birth can change women and there has something gone wrong in her head.

[hellionthesagereborn]

If a partner cheats, that's it, its done and you should immediately remove them from your life as quickly and viciously as possible.

[Liam_Hayden]

So much effort. I would have dumped her at the first sign of cheating. Of course I'm sterile so I will never have the added complication of a child, nor will I ever allow a woman to live in my house so there will not be that drama either.

[smrh1999]

Just move on
I think a girl who cheated on you doesn' deserve your you

[andreasderjuengere]

Does it make sense to take 'revenge'?
Why not just cut her out of the picture and move towards a 'better life'?

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Your very persistent to follow me

But hey good job getting revenge on her
by the way was she cheating with a black guy?

[Strong_male]

Nope. Weirdly it was an uncle fester lookalike, some bald loser and a guy that's 65 that picked her up ag a bar.
You know she's pretty enough and young enough if she wanted to cheat she could have had her pick.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

She's a gold digger man good that you did her bad

[Strong_male]

None of these guys including me have any gold. I mean that's what I dong get.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

No I mean she was using the guy she's cheating with

[Strong_male]

Well definitely

[samael_kmarty]

Sorry bro I am in the state of answering this, the reason you ask.
I never got into a relationship or got out so in theory I can't help you with this

[Oleaniana95]

The best thing to do is get an understanding as to why she's doing whats she's doing. Maybe the communication isn't there or she feels as if she can do whatever she pleases to do or she just doesn't care about what y'all have to be sleeping with other men. But in all honesty, move on thats sounds best for you. Or you're just gonna keep getting surprises like that.

[KrakenAttackin]

How about accepting she is a crazy bitch?

[Oleaniana95]

I mean that too or just leave her be🤷🏽‍♀️. Which ever one is basically less stressful

[termanator]

Well I said I would never hit a woman unless she pulled a gun or a sword on me , but if she was beating my kid in the head, I’d be having a conversation with a police officer and not her