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Lessons of Getting an Ex-Girlfriend Back: Week 0 The Confession

Lessons of Getting an Ex-Girlfriend Back: Week 0 The Confession

I broke with her twice over some stupid miscommunications and misunderstandings. It seemed like fate really. I phone v. Andriod phone missed text messages. Voicemails not discovered. horcruxes of information that seemed like smoke but in the end there was no fire of infidelity. A cluster fuck.

This is a personal diary in my journey. I hope that perhaps gentleman and ladies can read my journey and learn ways to build a broken relationship back up from the ashes. Doing this in recognition of the 5 stages of grief that people have during a breakup phase.

(Saturday) 2/20/21: I broke things off. She got a guy's number. The way it happened turned out to be innocent but was confusing at first because she was so angry about me questioning it. She shut down and wanted us to take a break from fighting and just cuddle. But I walked out to her pleading "We shouldn't break up over this." That night I call up a fuck buddy for sex to stem the pain. She agrees to have sex the next day. That night I send a fury of messages including an apology for overreacting.

2/21/21: I was in so much pain I blocked her on all social media and my phone. I cried all day. Went no contact. I was in so much pain I told my fuck buddy I was hurt and didn't want sex.

2/22/21: My now ex-girlfriend is depressed. Early in the morning she is so flustered chasing a dog in her apartment that she runs into the door frame of her bedroom and gets a concussion. She winds up going to the hospital and texting me. She waits for me to see her but I never got her text message. She is blocked on my phone but on her end the message reads as sent.

2/23/21: My ex sends me a messaging saying she is sad that I haven't talked to her. She asks for us to meet up and talk things through even if we aren't going to date anymore. "We owe each other that" she says.

2/24/21: I break my silence. I agree to meet up but later on so I could talk to my therapist first. I dont tell her the reason why I delayed meeting her however.

Lessons of Getting an Ex-Girlfriend Back: Week 0 The Confession
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