The Best Revenge To Give When Someone Cheats On You (And Has No Remorse)

[Stacyzee]

The thought of hurting the person you love to the same extent that they hurt you, makes you feel a sense of accomplishment.
Your thought process is: If you inflict the same pain that they did to you perhaps, they will understand how much they have hurt you.

You cannot even bare to fathom how someone who portrayed themselves as nurturing, loving, and caring could betray you in such a manner. They seem to have no remorse and leave you by yourself in the shadows, when all secrets are revealed.

All along everything was a lie!
This person used you and in the blink of an eye, as quickly as they came into your life is as quickly as they leave. Before they do so, they point fingers at you, stating that you are to blame for their infidelity.
Your soul grows dark, cold and empty!
Like a furance, the heat inside you builds, allowing you to want to explode.
You want revenge!
You must have it!
You will!

At this point in time, your "love" is every profanity word imaginable, and deserves to feel even as little as a hint of what they made you feel!

Oh, that son of a gun.....

Please stop!
I want you to refocus your thoughts and really listen to me.
I want you to understand, that you did not deserve any of that mistreatment.
You are beyond the vile things that person unloaded into your life.
If you allow yourself to become controlled by your anger, and seek destructive ways of gaining revenge, you are allowing your "love" to win in the end.

Allowing yourself to succumb to the fuel of your own anger is the biggest defeat of all.
You were a victim when your "love" revealed how much they hurt you without a care in the world.
If you allow your anger to grow bigger than yourself, you are continuing to allow yourself to be victimized.
At this point, you'd no longer be in control.
The person who wronged you is, because through your emotions you give that person all of the power, by acting in a manner that is opposite of character to you.

The biggest revenge of all, is gathering the pieces and moving on with your life.
When this person sees you were able to put both feet forward, and move on from them, this will hit them harder than if you were to stoop down to their level and try to inflict the very same pain that they caused you.
There was a moment in time, where they were at the top of the mountain and felt they had the power to tear you down.
But you rose above it, and showed them that the only person who is in control, is you.
Never give someone the power, to mold you into someone that you aren't.

The joy and the happiness, you have after the storm is the biggest retaliation of all.

[Anonymous]

This is absolutely true. When my ex and I broke up, he blamed me, telling me how I was just too much and he needed space and what not. After about nine to ten months (he was in a new relationship like a month and a half after we broke up) I was doing just fine with my life, then him and his new girlfriend came to talk to me and he confessed to cheating on me. That whole time during the conversation I wanted to kill him, I wanted to scream at him and tell him just how much I hate him, but instead I kept my cool. I didn't say anything except for "thanks for telling me in the end". When they left I obviously had a semi breakdown because I always expected it but never wanted to believe it. But then I continued with my life and a few months after that he told me that he is only dating this new girl because he cannot be alone and he had to leave me because he cheated and felt bad about it. I just responded by saying he should stop his bullshit. I don't believe him and I think his current girlfriend deserves better. He has tried explaining the situation a few times after that but I just don't give him the time of the day. I think he has wasted enough of my time. He used to be so use to me jumping at every opportunity to talk to him, and when I finally realized I was better off, he couldn't deal with it.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you try to wrestle with a pig, usually the pig escapes and you end up covered with mud.

[Tarvold]

Yes, but if you win, you get pork chops for dinner.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Tarvold Have you ever actually tried to wrestle with a pig? :)

[Tarvold]

hahaha... I have not.

[Relentless_Hippie]

'Revenge' in this aspect does indeed make sense, but I'd rather not refer to it as revenge. I agree, moving on with your life and becoming happy and successful is the most appropriate and healthy decision to make but for me, calling that 'revenge' sounds nauseating.

My decision for happiness and peace are my decisions for myself. It is not driven by "I'll show them how happy I can be without them." Instead it is driven by my physical and mental well being. Of course it involves a lot of crying and even missing the other person, as feelings don't vanish overnight but consistent self reflection and changes made for personal growth is what I am trying to achieve.

My focus is to heal myself for that future someone who will remain consistent in their love for me. The goal is to become a better me, for both myself and the one I was meant to be with. After all growth results from pain, and I would use that experience to create something beautiful.

I'm basically reiterating what you've written because I do stand with you on this topic. It's just a personal preference of mine observe it and use it as something other than 'revenge.'

[Stacyzee]

I'm calling it revenge for the sole purpose that these hurt people are seeking ways to hurt their past love , I'm letting them know something such as moving on with your life is where is something that can hurt someone much more.

No one in everyday life will call that revenge , but for the purpose of this article I will call it that because the person that is hurt is doing so unknowingly.

[thecd1979]

yes sir the best revenge is moving on and becoming stronger because of it. I remember when my ex cheated on me she was a straight up bitch about it. I was angry, bitter and wanted nothing more then revenge. I didn’t end up doing anything crazy though. I eventually moved on and got over it. I eventually went to college, got a degree, a job and my own place to live. She emailed me a couple of months later asking how I was doing. I was well over it all at that point so I was friendly in my reply and wished her well. I heard from her other friends that her dude had beat her up in front of their kid and was a loser that couldn’t hold a job and would rather buy beer and drugs instead of groceries and things they needed. I eventually saw her again when her and her dude had separated and she asked for another chance. I could have told her anything I wanted to at that point and been a straight up asshole, but what would that have changed. I declined because I was actually seeing someone else at that time. I could tell she realized what she had lost with me and she cried when I told her I couldn’t. Anger is awful and a horrible thing to hold onto. If your in this scenario please find it in your heart to forgive them so you can move on, anger won’t change anything.

[Anonymous]

Not so much cheating in the strictest sense; but my last/first girlfriend had lied to me for over a year that she had been raped shortly after we met by one of her friends. She eventually told me it was a lie.

But over that year I was extremely devoted to her because all her friends had abandoned her and she seemed to have no one. I really did love her and wanted to be there for her, even though we could only be just friends at that point. I tried to do everything for her; spending time with her, changing plans for her, dropping everything at a moments notice, driving out in the middle of the night to get her favorite food, etc. I tried not to push her and we never did anything more than close mouth kiss occasionally (maybe three times total). I thought that these were the right thing to do.

And over this year she would berate me, call me names, insinuate I was really gay, introduce me to everyone we met as her gay best friend, spend time exclusively with a revolving door of male friends she had known in less time than me. We took a week to visit one several states away. I thought I was helping her. I thought you had to be a good friend to be a boyfriend. I had never had a girlfriend before.

She eventually told me the rape, the thing that I thought was holding everything back and hurting her, had never happened. It was just her way at getting back at her ex. She asked if I was mad. I said a little. She got mad and said I never understand anything. We fought for a while and never spoke to each other again. All of this happened over text because she was afraid.

I feel cheated. I feel betrayed. I honestly feel like I can not trust anyone anymore, let alone romantically. This happened months ago and I still can't figure out how to "move on with my life."

[Relentless_Hippie]

Well of course you have every right to feel those things because that is exactly what happened. Not only did you have the right to be upset at someone for lying about rape you should have been furious. She's a crazy person and a mean and nasty one to boot.

No normal, sane, or just a good person is going to do something like that. She is selfish, only thinking about herself and never anyone else. That is exactly why she tried to make things seem as if they're you're fault, because she is incapable of admitting her wrongs.

Being a good friend does not mean allowing her to treat you like a living doormat. Being a good friend is not enabling her in her wicked behaviors. Being a good friend is being able to look at the reality of the situation regardless of any feelings you have and telling her the cold hard truth about herself. She needs a reality check not coddling.

You did your best and that's all that matters. Don't let this crazy piece of trash leave you damaged.

[serious]

I really don't understand why should one take revenge with the person who cheated on you? .

I mean I know taking revenge is a personal choice, so if they believe it's right then they can take revenge, but what I believe is that revenge is just a waste of time and energy, I mean in order to take revenge you need to think, plan and execute it on the one you want to take revenge on. Hence why not utilize that energy for some other useful purpose rather than taking revenge!.

Anyways these are personal choices. I would say the best thing is to remove the "cheater" out of your life forever.

[Anonymous]

My ex cheated on me with his economic and various others, of course it was all in my head & i was a crazy lady, according to him until I saw a counsellor who told me facts/real events are paranoid or delusional

In the past I have always got revenge on anyone that fucked me over in a variety of amusing ways however this time I'm holding back the urge to retaliate as i know moving on will hurt him much more than anything I could do to him or his property!

Wisdom & age taught me i am not a chicken and will not flap over any man but simply find a more suitable fitter cock! !!

[Trotters]

You go girl. 😊

[Toutou]

*suitable fitter cuck

who pays more

[hazoplmeught]

um maybe
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[Trotters]

Ha ha whats going on in the bottom picture?

[hazoplmeught]

@Trotters he tried to slash a military truck's tires and you can see the rest LOL

[Jager66]

Nah I prefer revenge, I've taken the high road and the low road and the low road is much much more satisfying!

You got to wait until you calm down and get a grip on your feelings first though. That way you can calculate the best way to cause as much damage as possible, take time to research it and get advice from other people as well to be sure what you do is as cruel as it can possibly be. It's important to know if they still have feelings for you or not because that will change how you retaliate, if you act to soon you might screw up your chance to fuck them over.

[rjroy3]

Never been cheated on to my knowledge and I've broken up with girls for less. I'd say dumping them without saying a word and moving onto another girl sounds like a good plan. The revenge is letting her be without, while I live a happy life. Truth is, a lot of girls go from guy to guy. Never being single for more than a month or two so they're never really lonely. Their search is just for a quality guy to call them back.

[skeptic007]

but whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

33 A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.

TOO WOMEN
34 For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not SPARE in the day of VENGENCE.

35 He will not regard any RANSOM; neither will he rest content, even if you offer him gifts

www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ills-cheating-wife.html

[Alan180188]

plan the revenge, get her into the plan then let her go while knowing that I could hurt her back but I chosen to be better and higher than her level.
it's the best way and gives a better feeling since you don't carry the bad feeling for hurting someone.

[Waffles731]

I generally consider the best revenge to tie them up, cut their vocal cords so they don't scream. flay the skin from their body, break their fingers and toes one at a time. Then cut them off.
Then cut off the nose.
Then pull their teeth one at a time.
Then lastly you decapitate them and bury them ten feet deep in the great north woods of Maine where no one will ever find their body.

[Smmyskittles]

If I ever find myself in need of an accomplice to dispose of a body; I shall call upon you.

[DaniaMQ]

I felt I was reading a horror story 😲

[Waffles731]

@DaniaMQ I want to write for a living and I'm pretty damn good.
I do know how to write horror

[DaniaMQ]

Well, you are definitely good at it 😎

[sp33d]

If they cheat without remorse, they don't give a fuck to begin with. What's the revenge for, then? Just burning yourself out even more? Pointless. All they need to know at that point in time is these words
"Get the f*ck out of my house!"

[YourFutureEx]

I'd prefer taking revenge by having threesome and having my bffs fuck her. Or I will pretend that I'm not hurt and I forgiven her and then I'll continuously fuck her till I find a new one and then I'd dump her in the middle of nowhere.

[singlebee]

Yes he second one sound more hurtful... Do it !!

[roadkingp]

I like that!

[YourFutureEx]

@singlebee & @roadkingp thanks bros :)
@OwMyGod - I didn't understand what you are talking but thank you too :D

[ThisDudeHere]

That's harsh...

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere Cheating isn't?
I'm a nice guy. I AM A NICE GUY. III. AMMM. AAA. NIIICEEE. GUYYY. I want everyone to be happy.
BUT! I have only one life and NOBODY on this planet is justified to abuse me. I won't allow myself to be exploited at any cost.
Treat YourFutureEx the way you want to be treated.

[ThisDudeHere]

I'm not saying to be nice to the person who cheated on you. I'm saying to not stoop to their level. She cheated on you? Yea, sucks - anyone will feel sorry for you. But how am I supposed to tell you to move on if you go though with this... thing that is no less sociopathic than cheating?

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere You mean, it will make me a cheater as well and then there will be no difference?

[ThisDudeHere]

No it will not make you a cheater. It will make you in to someone no less despicable than a cheater.

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere I don't care. She can hate me all she wants. I do a lot of good things, I do a lot of bad things. You do a lot of good things, you do a lot of bad things too. And so does every person on the planet.
At least, I'd
#1. Take revenge
#2. Enjoy
#3. Teach her what it feels like
#4. Then she'd prolly won't do that again
#5. Such way, a life of a man could be saved.

[ThisDudeHere]

If I knew you in real life and she cheated on you, I'd be there to support a bro. But if you do what you said you'd do, even to a cheater, I don't think I could be there 4 u.

"#1. Take revenge"
-I'm one of the few people who are all for revenge but only when it's due. Cheating merits you getting them out of your life, not fucking their's up even more.

"#2. Enjoy"
-So you'd enjoy losing your soul like that?

"#3. Teach her what it feels like"
-You'd teach her what it feels like to be used, not to be cheated on. There's a difference. They are not the same but neither of them is any better than the other.

"#4. Then she'd prolly won't do that again"
-What does it matter to you whether she does or doesn't do it again? She's out of your life, you move on dude. Besides, after this, despite her being the one who cheated, she'll be dead set on the "all men are evil" idea and you'll actually doom another man.

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere i1.kym-cdn.com/.../...2012-09-13_at_9.39.39_AM.png
What was I thinking?
Thanks dude. I promise to become a better man.

[ThisDudeHere]

Sarcasm?

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere I expected that reply.

[SunsetRose]

I hope I never go through this, but it's solid advice

[Byakuyarko]

let them go... cut them off... And carry on with the rest of your life as if they never existed... My ex complained to everyone who would hear about me moving on too fast...

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I'm so happy I never had to deal with this issue. I would probably be in prison because I know I'm crazy

[Toutou]

What will land you in prison?

[ikissedtheskyonce]

@Toutou me burning the guys house down

[jocro]

I was windering if you could give me some advice on my question? I like your approach to this issue and think you may be able to help me

[jocro]

* wondering

[DanteSparda]

Move on in which sense?

Move on and chase another person or chase your career?

[Stacyzee]

Chase your career and dreams.

Allow your heart to fully mend before chasing someone else.

You will only do yourself a disservice If you chase another with a broken heart and scattered pieces.

[DanteSparda]

Well I somewhat agree with you on this but I'm confused about my situation.
My break up occurred around a year ago but I'm feeling like I'm still not over her.

I don't want to be in relationship either because I don't like the drama when breakup occurs.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1917532-i-feel-chasing-after-women-is-a-waste-of-time-i-could-be-using-the

Want to share your two cents regarding this?
Thanks :)

[Stacyzee]

Sure :)

[Stacyzee]

I think that you are scarred from your past relationship. This might make the process in moving on towards future relationships much harder.
You have to understand with each and every person you decide to bring into your life, there's always a "chance" hurt might occur.
Taking that chance is normal.
We all have to have a few bad apples before we find one that is not.
If you do not work on these insecurities that your past relationship has bought you, then a year will turn into 2-5 years and more. If you're at least willing to work on your fears , then true progression will start.

[DanteSparda]

Thanks for your help, unfortunately I can't able to give you MHO on this post :P

[Tdieseler]

you know... I could have summed that up in one sentence... worst case 3...

[Stacyzee]

What exactly is your point?

[Tdieseler]

you mean YOUR point. you wrote all that but the real answer was in the last paragraph. im not saying you are wrong, just saying you stretched it out too long.

[Stacyzee]

The beginning was describing the situation leading up to the event.
The middle was capturing the emotions of the person who was cheating on.
The ending was to show how the person should deal with the situation.
Every article has a introduction, body and an ending.
This is what I did, like any article would.

If we want to be technical, all mytakes could be summed up in "one line".
If people were to do so, that would defeat the entire purpose of creating an article in the first place.

There would be so such thing as books, articles, magazines etc.
So, your comment is pointless in this instance.

[Stacyzee]

*cheated on

[Tdieseler]

Oh i know how to write. I know what you mean... but you still extended something that didn't need extending. maybe is just my guy thinking, just saying.
Its still a good article... i just scanned down to the actual answer, which i knew.
Turns out you did too. the rest was just fluff... no offense.

[Stacyzee]

For some it does need extending. By giving a situation and acknowledging how it makes one feel, I am allowing those who are going through this now to be able to relate to this article rather than giving them a "sentence with one answer.". A sentence with one answer is overused, cliche, and does not allow a person to show their relation to others. An answer, is also impersonal and robotic.
Generally speaking, we all can ask a question and give an answer to.
However, in order to touch someone on a deeper basis more is needed, which I did.

I knew that you did not read my article, given that I had posted it, and less than a minute later you responded.

[Tdieseler]

I know how to speed read... plus like i said... i was looking to see if you knew the true answer. again... i like things short n simple. but i did read your article..(speed read)... just not a long story kinda person.
I never dissed the article.

[Stacyzee]

You're not a article person but pretty much clicked on one? Hmm ok.

To each their own i guess.

[Tdieseler]

to each their own... and i know who you are too... so i hope you don't think im trying to be mean or some crap... lol

[Stacyzee]

I don't think you were mean, but I think your answer was un-necessary.
Anyone can provide someone with an answer in a sentence. But how helpful is that really?
Showing relation by offering a story, and acknowledging emotions that someone is going through, offers more help and connection.

Thanks for commenting!

[Tdieseler]

i guess its just the mistake of someone presuming that others have a brain and will use it with the answer provided.
i personally get bored with extensions... one-liners and things to figure out... thats fun.
but you are welcome darling, i hope to see your posts again on some question... we can squabble again.

[Stacyzee]

I advise you not to click on any myTakes because you'll read a lot more than one-sentence.
I think the question section of this site, is definitely more for someone who doesn't like to read or becomes bored rather quickly.
Good day!

[Tdieseler]

dang girl... dont gotta be so curt... i mean... i do read myTakes... just not those i can answer in one line. honestly, i clicked this because it had Your name on it.

[Stacyzee]

But what good would answering a question in one line do?
When you can tell me the good that will come from that, or how that will thoroughly help someone, then I will respect your opinion more.
I've seen you around in my myTakes but I think you are not understanding the whole concept here.
It isn't about answering a question in a abrupt manner, it's about showing relation, showing that i understand someones thought process, and getting them to see WHY the answer is.
Some people feel the best revenge is cheating back on their partner, or keying their car, or some other ratchet act.
What makes sense to us, won't to every one (hense explanation).

[Tdieseler]

i guess i don't like explanations and like to figure things out... no fault of yours.

[Anonymous]

dumb. getting back at someone has nothing to do with "stooping to their level". they hurt and you want to hurt them back. that's it. there's no "levels" in this case