I always think the major flaw in a break up for guys is not talking to people! Please find someone, anyone to confide in! That’s why women get over things quicker cos they tell everyone!
It is not in our nature to talk. That is female behaviour, which, in a man, is seen as weak bitchthink. For men, once we stop crying alone in the darkness, we resolve to not allow a female to hurt us in that way again. Think of a small child learning to not touch a hot stove.
@cth96190 oh I’ve met many a guy that can talk my ear off and still be manly it’s just about the wrong things 😂 my dad never shuts up about things with wheels! But guys really do need to start talking about their feelings cos that’s why there’s so many male suicides you guys keep it bottled up
⚫Those where great points you shared out, No need keep her in mind go out have fun. Just like life since it continues.
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I usually just call her sister or best friend and ask if they wanna bang. Whining and crying are for those who lost something of value. Women these days are like gravel: if you lose your favorite piece, just pick up another one.
Get to know why you were dumped, is there something you could improve on. If she was a genuine person and you both had connection, try again otherwise, Learn from it and move on.
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I would erase her from my life.. Pretend like she never existed. If she calls and attempts to talk to me, treat her like she is nothing to me..
Or you can just understand that that were not very nice, like a whole of other people. Isn't that complicated but maybe hard for some.
I always think the major flaw in a break up for guys is not talking to people! Please find someone, anyone to confide in! That’s why women get over things quicker cos they tell everyone!
It is not in our nature to talk.
That is female behaviour, which, in a man, is seen as weak bitchthink.
For men, once we stop crying alone in the darkness, we resolve to not allow a female to hurt us in that way again.
Think of a small child learning to not touch a hot stove.
@cth96190 oh I’ve met many a guy that can talk my ear off and still be manly it’s just about the wrong things 😂 my dad never shuts up about things with wheels!
But guys really do need to start talking about their feelings cos that’s why there’s so many male suicides you guys keep it bottled up
3 and 10 are especially big ones. A lot of guys get hung up on those points. This mytake is a very good and useful one.
The way you describe men and the love they found in the woman they were with is just wrong. Like we are the pursuers? Wtf
Thanks for the tips I guess
You wear her belongings, you stare in the mirror, put on her makeup on.
Now your off the deep end. Now you drinking booze and it gets worse
Take it day by day, cry if you need to. Talk it out if you need to and eventually you will get your life and yourself back again.
⚫Those where great points you shared out, No need keep her in mind go out have fun. Just like life since it continues.
I usually just call her sister or best friend and ask if they wanna bang. Whining and crying are for those who lost something of value. Women these days are like gravel: if you lose your favorite piece, just pick up another one.
Not unless you’ve already killed yourself over your favourite piece
@Gisellecute I assume that made some kind of sense to you
It should make sense to any person with a well functioning brain.
If you really cared about her, avoid her for at least a year. This will help greatly
Get to know why you were dumped, is there something you could improve on. If she was a genuine person and you both had connection, try again otherwise, Learn from it and move on.
Or do what she did and alwayd have a plan b aka (side chick) lol
To quote a stormtrooper in Star Wars: "move along."
She wasn't the droid you were looking for.
1.) Remove all stuff that has anything to do with her
Guys this is blue pill.
Fuck as many of her friends and sisters as you can.
Especially sisters.
@dc-refugee Two Betas actually down voted me.
No surprise there.
I went over to my friends with benefits... after that nut i am all better
No thanks
"I strongly recommend this therapist if you're tryna to get back together with your ex (relationship_world@yahoo com) I got results in a week."
All are great points. I think moving on would be hard for some.
right on!
Thanks for sharing you wrote it very well