I agree. I think anyone can change. All it takes is wanting to change. Having a family for many people is enough motivation to change any part of they life
Do you understand the difference between being married and taking a vow to only be with one... no, this isn't about some bullshit boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on … that is totally not cheating! When you put that ring on, it actually means that you intend to stay loyal to that person. If you break that vow... then there is no marriage and you are living in nothing but a lie. You, I would warn people away from ever committing to... your are a cheater in progress. Hell, he will forgive me! Yeah right!
Cheaters can change, but they usually don't change. A very small minority of cheaters will ever change. Let's not live in pretend world. It's very rare a cheater changes.
If course they can. People like you who say that dont understand why a cheater cheats. When you know why they cheated then it stops. It is typically not impulsive. its an emotional pain reason. When its repaired in the relationship couples can live fulfilling lives.
Once a person cheats they have it stored in their subconscious which makes it possible to do it again. It really doesn't matter why they cheated. Their credibility is damaged and it would be hard to trust them again. If they are not happy in their relationship then GTFO because cheating can destroy a relationship and you gain nothing from your cheating, especially your self respect and guilt that result.
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I think I’d personally struggle with trust and respect after that. So I’m not sure enough would be left to make it work.
Depends on his “reason” and willingness and our situation in terms of young kids I guess. I’d never knowingly choose a weak MSN though.
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You actually think a cheater is going to be given a 2nd chance?
I agree.
I think anyone can change.
All it takes is wanting to change.
Having a family for many people is enough motivation to change any part of they life
Do you understand the difference between being married and taking a vow to only be with one... no, this isn't about some bullshit boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on … that is totally not cheating! When you put that ring on, it actually means that you intend to stay loyal to that person. If you break that vow... then there is no marriage and you are living in nothing but a lie. You, I would warn people away from ever committing to... your are a cheater in progress. Hell, he will forgive me! Yeah right!
@Jaumet you do you. And I'm gonna do me.
Have a good life.
Cheaters can change, but they usually don't change. A very small minority of cheaters will ever change. Let's not live in pretend world. It's very rare a cheater changes.
That's nice if a cheater can change. But they can change without me.
I don't know. This sounds an awful lot like giving cheaters some kind of vindication. I don't know if it is something I could ever get past.
I know there are exceptions... But cheaters don't change and can't be trusted again... It's a huge gamble
A cheater WON'T CHANGE. Only people with an IQ of an ameba want to believe it's just one time thing, it has never been.
Cheati are smarter than know when to play smart n when to play fool. Lol 😂
There is always a reason, but if it's relationship troubles, you should talk that out before cheating happens
Cheaters don’t change. They’re addicts and addicts never truly recover.
They have the ability to change, but it's wise for the person that they cheated on to move on.
A cheater won’t change unless they want to change.
Cheaters never change 💋
Cheaters don't change no matter what you say.
Thats not true. Not for all people
It is true for a large enough portion of cheaters that it might as well be true for all.
Cheaters can't change.
If course they can. People like you who say that dont understand why a cheater cheats. When you know why they cheated then it stops. It is typically not impulsive. its an emotional pain reason. When its repaired in the relationship couples can live fulfilling lives.
Cheating reveals some state of minds that allows one to cheat. Only cheating people see it as something due to exterior forces instead of themselves.
Once a person cheats they have it stored in their subconscious which makes it possible to do it again. It really doesn't matter why they cheated. Their credibility is damaged and it would be hard to trust them again. If they are not happy in their relationship then GTFO because cheating can destroy a relationship and you gain nothing from your cheating, especially your self respect and guilt that result.
They will never change.
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