Long term girlfriend we were eachother first loves and serious relationship 4yrs, we've had break ups in past but always came back. Now right after slying across country to visit her and she asked when i would propose to her bc she feels times running out, she's 26 i said i need to finish med school first., anyway she left me 2 days later for a guy she just met on vacation and says their in "love" already and sees a more steady future with him and he moved to her state already so their both moving extremely fast which confuses me. I know i couldn't see her the same way anymore, but would this be considered a rebound?
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A rebound happens after a relationship, not before. Sounds like she checked out emotionally after you said you weren't ready for marriage. Perhaps she found someone whom she thought had the same goals in mind as she did for a relationship.
She told you she was getting desperate, her actions reflect that. Her behavior also reflects that of someone having a midlife crisis, she's around the right age.1