Being depressed doesn't mean she's totally out of her mind or anything. She knows what she's doing. You just have to as to talk to her either on the phone or in person as calmly as possible. Don't throw a bunch of words at her, or she'll feel overwhelmed. She's really fragile at the moment. I don't know what makes her think she's hurting you, but I want you to know that depressed people are NOT crazy. She knows what she wants and she knows what she's doing. You just have to CAREFULLY make her understand you. I used to have a mental disorder and I don't know how it feels to be on the other side of things so the only advice I could give you is to try to get to her REALLY CAREFULLY. Remember she's like a piece of glass right now; sharp but fragile.
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My new ex of a week and ahalf told me the same exact thing. He had an emotional break down and didn't want to hurt me. yet he never did. He said he wasn't good enough for. I thought he was freakin perfect for me. We were best friends. I seriously dont know. I think they honestly do too much thinking and wrong words come out.
Maybe.. Maybe you should just give her space and let her come to you. Trust me, there's nothing you can really do if she's really not wanting to talk to her. Avoid asking her questions. Sometimes when a woman has made up her mind, there's no changing it. I Just kinda went through the same thing. You're in a losing battle. Just give her space and if she wants to talk to you she will. You'll just end up pushing her farther away.
You can't blame her entirely, because she's having mental health issues. I have battled depression and anxiety for the most part of my life as well, so I know exactly how she should have felt. No amount of reassuring from you, would make her feel better. But depression and anxiety are quite manageable.
Don't lose hope yet, once she's got the issue sorted out, she may very well get back with you. :)
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