Etiquette when grinding at parties Girls please answer; Guys give opinion as well

[dtaylor31906]

1) When a girl is grinding on a guy is it uncomfortable if the guy is wearing denim jeans

2) Does a girl just want the guy to stand there like a wall or try to move around and keep up with the girl

feel free to elaborate, and throw in anything else that guys should know about this subject but most guys don't

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+1 y

when I say grinding I mean the dance like at clubs and parties not whatever bunny slave17 is talking about

[LilyoftheValley]

I don't really care what pants the guy is wearing (never noticed denim being uncomfortable anyways).

I personally like it if it feels like we're *dancing together* not *me grinding on some guy who's just standing there like a wall*. So yeah, you can lead or let me, but don't just stand there awkwardly. Make it interesting for both of us (not necessarily sexually!).

Despite popular belief, even when grinding, there are still good dancers and bad dancers. Let the girl take the lead if she's in front, but do add in your own pieces and make it so you're both contributing to the fun of the dance. Try to be aware of her body language. If she takes your hands and moves them, then that's where she wants them! Whether she's encouraging you to be MORE or LESS sexual, listen to her (not just literally. If she has to say it out loud, you're not paying attention). Although, of course, if you think she wants more than you want to give her, do NOT feel obliged to do anything you don't want to. :)

Hope this (really really long post) was/is helpful! Good luck in the clubs.

[rosedreamer101]

It depends on what the girl is wearing- if she's wearing a thin dress or something- then denim is uncomfortable. but the number one thing that bothers me is belts- AWAYS move the buckle to the side of you- it bothers me so much when I'm grinding and the belt buckle is digging in my butt -_- and actually, I don't mind the whole standing there like a wall thing- because moving with the girl doesn't feel as good (for the guy) as just standing there- so it's whatever to me- I mean I get it, besides, no offense, but I don't want to dance with a guy who's just awkwardly doing his own thing because he couldn't keep up. so it depends on how good you are or whatever :)

[dtaylor31906]

what feels better for you though a guy moving with you(well and not like an idiot that can't keep up) or him just standing there

[bunny_slave17]

yes when me and my boyfriend have sex if he wears jeans it hurts alot...

and also when I am grinding I find it hard to orgasm if he moves so its realy best if you let her go at her pace