Most Helpful Girl
You can't if she doesn't have those feelings anymore. Once those feelings for someone are gone, nothing you do will make him/her regret it an want you back. And, being pushy about getting that person back is actually a turnoff and just pushes them further away. They will eventually despise you. I understand that you still love her, but you can't force her to love you. The best thing that you can do is take time for yourself to heal and move on with your life. It WILL get better and you will look back and wonder what you were thinking in trying to get her back and that you are so much better off without her.
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Most Helpful Guy
OK, listen up, this is what you have to do.
GO NO CONTACT, walk away and never look back.
She'll eventually realise what she's missing and that you haven't been speaking to her...
She'll reach out, as long as their is some kind of attraction/curiosity. When she does you NEED to assume she wants to meet up.
Be like "Hey, I suppose you want us to meet up, how about you bring a bottle of red over to mine and we can cook dinner?".
If she says no tell her "Well if you change your mind, contact me in the next 2-3 weeks".
She'll likely contact you again... ask her out on the date at YOUR PLACE... if she says no again, then tell her the same thing.
DO THIS ONLY TWICE.