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I agree I mean maybe if you are already with somebody you could simply ask your significant other to be your Valentine's. If it's some person that you have feelings for and not really sure how or when to ask i think it's a great idea to ask her/him before Valentine's so it gives you the opportunity to take her/him out before somebody else does.
I believe you should ask them early enough. So they get their stuff in order.Like what dress or outfit they might want to choose. Some may have children and need extra time to find a babysitter. They also need time to call their friends and brag that I'm taking them. Hey no judging, I can have a enlarged ego if I want. I'm the one typing this
Between now and Valentine's day. A week in advance is okay if you don't think anyone else will ask, and enough time to get them something if you want.
Uh, Valentine's Day, obviously.
You don't think getting asked earlier demonstrates decisiveness and real interest?
I'd think it was, honestly, kinda creepy and weird, assuming we weren't already dating.
Really? I kinda' figured it would be the exact opposite. If you're already dating... it's assumed. But to want someone to be your valentine, even when it's not Valentine's Day, yet... Well, I thought that was more romantic.You know, like wanting to give a woman flowers, even when it's not your anniversary, or to buy someone a gift even when it's not her birthday or Christmas?
I dont know... maybe late January?
Valentines Day does not really mean anything it is just a day where you get to spoil the person you live or want to be with. You should ong ask someone put when you feel ready and when you feel they also like you back. Never feel you have to ask someone out because of it being valentines day
Depends on what you’re planing. If you’re already dating and just want to spend time with them you can ask the day of/day before, If you want to go out to dinner probably a week before, if you want to take a trip to Paris probably several months before haha
Can you be my valentine? :D
I am the happiest man alive. :D I have a date now.
since its only dec. and there is still time to ask why don't you play a game like the 20 question game. or more than that. ask her questions and ask her what you asked us. but don't just come out and say it. put it in the middle of all the questions you ask and you can make them seem odd or personal to make it not seem so obvious. throw in some other questions about holidays. some girls are different so why not be sneeky and figure out what she liked
Lol. I am asking this out of curiosity. Thanks for the advice, though. :)
Are you doing this coldly? That person has no clue your into them I would ask them the day of. If they know you're interested and you're not sure of them I'd ask February 1. If they're interested is ask the week of because you know they'll say yeah and no to anybody else but then again I would because Valentine's day is corny.
I dont get why Valentine's has to be a day in making it a reason to "ask". Asking whomever you develop feelings for in whether or not they care to go on a date, should happen at your own pace, organically. Asking someone to be your love doesn't have to have a time frame nor does it have to be on a holiday.
Probably starting before Valentine's Day if you are dating someone. However, I'm not real big on that holiday as it's like saying you're supposed to do all this stuff just because they say you do. LOL
Just ask and feel emboldened yet make their spirit soar. You earnt respect and adoration, plus blessings from the universe for doing that.
Early February. And if you can’t wait, or need to do some early planning or whatever, late January.
...last I checked Valentine was for the day permitted. Asking a girl in Dec, would probably seem a little weird.
You don't think asking earlier demonstrates decisiveness and real interest?
...if you ask her on valentines day, yes.
Waiting until the last minute may seem to show that it will be a one time event. Ask whenever or ASAP to show you really have any feelings for the other.
I asked mine last May. I wanted to make sure he was going no-where
As soon as necessary, but no later than Feb. 10. Don't let someone else preempt you.
This is a good question... It's been so long.. But I'm known for purposefully asking way out of season... Read here... July
Never cause that's tacky and desperate as shit. Anyone and everybody will be able to see right through you and know that you are just asking so you don't feel singled out.
With my girlfriend and I, there's kinda a mutual agreement that we're each other's valentine, so asking is kinda unnecessary.
Valentine's is overrated, if you feel for someone tell them ASAP in a nice way , before someone else takes away your love.
I kinda feel like you generally don't, if you're dating them then they become your Valentine.
Get your reservations in early but stick with the season - make it in February
What do shell fish have to do with Valentine's day?
Because it's probably taken you a long time to call up the nerve to ask her to be yours
Happened last week, we were actually going on the 15th to avoid the masses, but there had to be a change of plans
Right after you catch them cheating with your best friend.
Never, love is a disgusting disease that should be stamped out
why should you even ask someone to be your valentine? Its normal day lol
You have 364 other days in a year why valentine's? In my opinion it's just an excuse
Like 11:55 PM on Fab. 14. or better yet, ask April 1st.
Dude don't fall for that Hallmark crap. Girls may be gullible enough to get swindled into this fake holiday but you should be better.
Dont ask them to be your valentine. That's corny. they'll appreciate it if you ask them on a date
If you want something make it known, so nothing can get in the way
To be honest whenever you feel ready to pop the question to her/him
I would never ask a guy something like that. There’s a high chance they might reject you
The day of, because that's the special day!
I'll wait for singles day 😀
the day after. you get everything discounted.
I ask lots to be my valentine
1 months before I would say
Wait as long as you can lol
No idea. I've never been asked.
i don, t have any boyfriend
Right around the week of/or on Valentines day.
In my opinion long before Valentine's Day...
On Valentine's day😂😂
WHenever really it depends
Week before January a bit too early
My girl asked me yesterday! I happily said yes!
Don't wait, do it TODAY.
I'm too old for that lol.
I would have to say the day of
Maybe a week away from valentines day
Before after valentine does it really matter
Vote F: Never
Never for me !!
The answer is NEVER! 😂
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