My boyfriend has been hurt before by his ex-girlfriends who cheated on him and I feel like he is keeping his distance so he won't get hurt by me to? Kind of like he is anticipating me cheating on him and hurting him like they did. I'm not like that though at all and would never do that. I've talked to him before and have told him that many times. Any ideas on how to reassure him other than not actually cheating?
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Well he has good reason to be a little distant. He doesn't want to get hurt again and he is using his only defense to do that by not being as committed and close to you. Just give him time and give him no reason to even think that your cheating. Just be there for him and make sure he knows you love him and wouldn't hurt him no matter what. It's almost like you have to prove yourself and your commitment for him to do likewise. I hope everything works out for you two and remember to just be there for him when he needs you and everything well fall in place. Good Luck1