What caused your most recent breakup?

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Quelled · Accepted Answer

She couldn't stay committed, she was abusive, she was too insecure, she grew bored of me (but I realize now she was the one who was boring as fuck, not me), she was racist, she couldn't overlook my religious past even though I told her that I am irreligious now, and she made me feel guilty for having any sexual desires. She tried to blame me for everything and she never appreciated me. I don't get why she said she wanted to keep things casual at first, then she mentioned marriage and babies, then she disappeared. I mean she even said she loved me, then she said she has no feelings for me a couple of days later. Then, she told me to die. wtf? Seriously? What a fucking troll. She was a GaG user. Her name is Breatheme19. She pretended to be nice to everyone on GaG, but she threw all her negative emotions and thoughts at me. I worshiped her. I tolerated her rude, inconsiderate thoughts and behavior. The worst thing she did was leaving me without telling me why. But I'm fairly certain it was because she went after a married coworker. I'm done with online relationships. I thought League of Legends had the worst trolls. But apparently, girls on the internet are the ultimate trolls. Damn.

JPSAM · Accepted Answer

my emotionally abusive and cheating wife of 2.5 years left with my 1 year old son to her parent's house a month ago after an 8 horrible months where she said she didn't love me anymore and can't stand being with me and deprived me from all kind of intimacy and i kept trying to fix our marriage for the sake of our family and for the sake of our son and now she wants me to take her back.
NO i'm not taking her back and i am filing for divorce.

xviiinfinitum · Accepted Answer

long story short, we had one too many fights over the same things.

the problem was, we had so much problems in our relationship that because HE didn't see it as a problem, it therefore wasn't a problem, period. and whenever i tried to bring it up (things like he would say absolutely horrible things to me when we fought, him talking constantly about girls he hooked up with on vacation, him never paying attention to anything i say) he would say "oh f*ck this, not this sh! t again, all you do is cause problems and i just want good vibes in my life, i don't wanna deal with energy"
it was a year of me pushing things under the rug and becoming miserable inside. he broke up with me, which was, in hindsight, the wakeup call I needed.

so overall, i'd say a happy ending.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

My most recent break up was in 2009...

We broke up because he, for some reason, decided he owned me and could dictate who I spoke with and also he decided that cheating on me with my best friend would be a good idea and when I went to confront him, he grabbed me by the throat and attempted to choke me out so I delivered a palm heel strike to his face and may have accidentally fractured his nose.

So... you tell me. What caused our break up? lol

Apples09 · Accepted Answer

He became distant which made me become needy and kept asking why and if he still wanted me, until finally he said he needed to think about it then broke up with me through a text saying "I don't love you and I don't want to be with you." But I feel like my abandonment issues caused me to ruin my relationship 😞

AzureGirl · Accepted Answer

My last one was too spontaneous. We knew each other 3-4 hours prior to getting together. Though he never really asked me to be his girlfriend, he just started saying I was. We ended it the next day.

thisGUYknows · Answer

I dunno, it was weird. She said our relationship was moving too fast (4 months). Even though she wanted me to get her pregnant. I told her we weren't ready, plus she already has a 18 month old. Then like 2 days later she said she wanted to date again. About two weeks ago she ended things for good when I told her I went to Hooters to use my gift card with my cousin after going to a bar to eat. She blocked me on everything. She was furious even though we weren't a couple anymore. Haven't talked to her since. Oh well I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know really. I actually don't even wanna know. I think in my first relationship we grew bored of each other and I wasn't really in the best mental state. So I took some of it out on her, not like being angry or anything. I was just a bit mopy. So she ended up cheating on me and we broke up on Christmas eve. I took it worse than I thought I would. It wasn't even that I missed her. I just felt worthless as a person and didn't have that much friends/connections besides her so I lost the little confidence I had left.

Now i've dated a girl for about 2-3 months which she ended because I didn't commit and I have to move for a job. So she didn't want a distance relationship. I still feel like shit. It seemed so easy for her, like I didn't mean anything. And how can I not take it like something is wrong with me?

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

It was a combination of having different views/values/beliefs and her being physically abusive, extremely manipulative, and a pathological liar. After I broke up with her, I started to find out that some people I knew also knew her and they told me stories which only confirmed my decision to break it off and to never have contact with her again. They were not at all surprised by her behavior towards me.

Anonymous · Answer

I let my trust and abandonment issues get the best of me. Things started to get a little rough and, out of desperation, I ended up making terrible mistakes in an attempt to save what I thought was a dying relationship. But I ended up being the one that killed it.

Thatwoman · Answer

He was way too insecure. He wanted to be just like zyzz (the body builder). He was very mean to me. Basically, he broke up with me over stupidity and his parents hated me because I was a different race/ religion.

Grisbosque · Answer

the woman thought she had the right to be verbally abusive. ragging, negativity, personal attacks, lack of emotional control, being a constant bother princess etc.

9mfeo · Answer

He couldn't handle my anxiety disorder. I wish I could walk away from my anxiety that easily.

celin98 · Answer

i know that i will love him until i die, he was the guy i could even sacrifice my life for. but he betrayal to me😢I've suffered the worst pain in the world. there's no point in living without him. he killed me, i want to suicide. cos when i saw his lips another woman's lips, i was already died😢😢😢

Anonymous · Answer

Eh.. Well.. I chose different views. We broke up because we disagreed each other about keeping our baby. That and he kept saying "I don't deserve you..." Which I thought was weak of him, especially since I was willing to grow with him. I mean, why wouldn't you just better yourself?

Darkfairie17 · Answer

I picked the first option, but really he cheated on me.

Anpu23 · Answer

She caught feelings for someone else. As we were not exclusive there was no cheating, so she went with him and I went my own way.

Anonymous · Answer

She was always trying to make me jealous, and she was very prudish: she used to try to set me traps with questions as "do you think having sex is nice?", and then if I said "yes", she would tell me "it's too soon for us to have sex", when I wasn't even saying that. So yeah, it was a sickening relationship; I don't know how I could ever get into that.

Anonymous · Answer

She said I wasn't open enough, or open-minded enough. Which was true, though I've changed now. I think it was also because I didn't want sex though she didn't say that was a problem

Softball_Soul25 · Answer

He could not stay committed, he told me "I was nice" and that "We are very different people" then he proceeded saying "He was worn out from the relationship" Honestly, he didn't do anything in the relationship except take me to HOCO then he left a month later. I met him at church, go figure. And I am way too scared to go back and fear he might be with another girl. I pray every night that God will guide me to someone better than my ex.

fragilebird · Answer

There were things about me he didn't like but couldn't move past. He didn't love me as much as I did.

Anonymous · Answer

We had diff views. Werent on the same page.

akanetuk · Answer

Jealousy

Anonymous · Answer

He said he loves me but not in love with me. Wanted space. Didn't want to hurt me. Couldn't love me the way I wanted. Excuses.

Sarahplus2 · Answer

He wanted an open relationship

Lance1965 · Answer

She was a cheater.

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