He premeditatedly lied. Made up story to be out of town on business. Long story short...I IMD him to be certain he made it to LA...SHE answered IM to let me know he was in town, did I want to leave a message? I asked if he were in LA she said well no...I asked if she was girlfriend and she said yes! But was from out of town. When he came back IM sure she told him that she had talked to me. HE cheated, I found out and ever since he will NOT communicate in any way with me! WHY ? Not an apology, explanation...nothing! Before he supposedly left he told me he was see me the following Tuesday! Please help me to understand.