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Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
I was getting pretty damn fed up with his bs. and one day he was throwing a fit for me to come see him.. ( I wasn't feeling good I had sinus stuff ) So just to get him to shut up I met him at his brothers.. he wanted to watch a show until I had to go ( I told him I wasn't staying long) I asked him if he needed to tell his brother that he came over to their house ( he had a key ) he shrugged me off. next thing I know there a knock on door and its one of their mutual friends and he decided to give him a hard time for getting arrested the night before ( he was caught speeding and they ran his tag turns out he didn't pay a ticket) I was furious I heard it from a friend and he wasn't going to even say anything about it... The whole time I was there he kept trying to look down my shirt to see what kind of bra I was wearing and kept trying to pull my pants back to see what kind of underwear I was wearing.. I really wasn't feeling good so his lack of respect just extremely pissed me off and I told him screw this I'm freaking leaving... I went to get up to leave and he followed me to the door blocking it so I couldn't leave and since I was much bigger than me when I tried pushing him out of the way it didn't work so well... I kept trying finally I said if you don't freaking move I'm going to punch you ( he knows I have anxiety really bad and one of my triggers is feeling trapped ) once he finally moved I bolted and ran to my car and he quickly followed me to my car.. I was so infuriated I didn't speak to him for a week when I finally did answer his phone call I told him it was over and I was done with his bs... Told him to lose my number ( I also blocked him) he called off on for a year straight finally I told his sister in law to please to tell him to quit.
I divorced my husband because he called me a cunt, screaming at me at one o'clock in the morning outside our ten-year-old son's bedroom. He was angry that I had been out late, even though he knew I was at a girlfriend's house and had been drinking wine and stayed until I felt sober enough to drive home.
I gave him two weeks, trying to think of the best way to handle what was the culmination of years of verbal and emotional abuse. I finally just tried to talk to him about it calmly and let him know how much it bothered me. He said it was my fault that I made him angry and if I didn't like it I could leave (his theme throughout the marriage.) So I said I wanted a divorce. He thought I was joking. I wasn't.
He was controlling, verbal and emotional abusive sometimes physically. Got to a point I couldn't handle the abuse anymore even in front of our kids and others, calling me names etc, We move out. He tried to persuade me to come back but that was it, was very hurt, scare to be around him feeling like we (kids and I) might end up dead at one point or another. Was for the best.
It wasn't working, I was no longer happy, was very resentful and truly did not get the affection and attention that I deserved. I bent over backwards for him and only to realize that you can't change people or make someone else love you, you just got to go get what you want and thats what I did.
It's along story but here goes. I was watching a movie with my girlfriend, and she said she was off to pee. Now she's been gone 5 minutes, and i knew something was up. I knocked on the door and asked if everything was ok. She said "Yes i'll be right out". Her voice was labored and i became suspicious, so i yelled "I'M COMING IN!" She screamed "no", but there was no stopping this. I smashed through the door and i see her sitting on the toilet seat. I told her to get up. She didn't so i threw her off. I looked inside the toilet. Just as i suspected, a goddamn log. B****, you better pray this isn't yours. I looked around and saw no pets in sight. I yelled "I KNOW THIS IS YOUR POOP YOU WHORE". She screamed at me that i'm crazy, and that she's calling the cops. All the while with toilet paper in her hands. I told her "No need to call the cops, I'm breaking up with you. Are you some kind of poop whore?" And that was that. I feel like a new man and off to find a woman who doesn't poop.
She told me I can't talk to girls cause I would cheat on her with them. She got mad at me cause when we got in bed, I was "too good to be doing it for the first time" (I was a virgin with absolutely everything - 0 relationship/sex experience). She didn't like my friends, and whenever we went to the college cafeteria for lunch, I had to either let her eat alone to eat with my friends, or eat with her and not my friends. I also did not like getting into bed with her, which I knew was sexually frustrating her.
Distance. Out careers were not going in the same direction and neither if us wanted tk relocate in the near future. He had his plans for his career and if he were not to achieve those, he would be miserable with his life. So i let him go so that he can be happy.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
+1 y
My last boyfriend wasn't that good. We dated over the summer and he randomly stopped texting leaving me very worried and he wouldn't answer my calls. Once school started I asked him what happened and he said his phone broke. He hardly spent time with me. Only sat on the bus with me for a few min everyday and thats it. He started becoming distant so I knew something was up. Then he comes up to me to break up with me and says that "we're too young to date"? Then why tf did he ask me out in the first place?
I broke up because she did not respect that I had responsibilities to take care of. She wanted my attention 24/7 and didn't care if I was busy, and when I made time for her she didn't appreciate me or my efforts at all. I didn't want to be with somebody who couldn't appreciate my love.
He cheated on me with his ex, and got caught. Started dating her the very next day.
Then she cheated on him with some guy she was going to college with. He sent me a screen shot of what she told him. (We casually spoke, I was upset. But I no longer cared.) what she told him was the same exact thing he said to me. She was just HARSH.. Like, really harsh.
we broke up because he was a drug addict, alcoholic, lying thief, who lived with his mom, who was an ungrateful bitch who said I never paid for anything and was living there for free, when in fact I paid for everything else except the rent (which she paid), and was the only one with a job. and I finally woke my dumb ass up to reality and left
I didn't break up with anybody but I rejected a guy that I used to like after he became interested in me because he had a coloured sexual history and I was worried he would pass on that sin to our children if we got married and had kids later on.
My ex broke up because I lied to her which I never did.. it's a real shame to be honest, it will be hard for her to find a man willing to sacrifice his job to make her happy after 2 month into a relationship.
He left to go overseas for three + years for his career. The long distance thing proved to be more than we could handle. We ended on good terms and still keep in touch.
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
+1 y
No drama: she cheated, she confessed, I pardoned, she cheated again and again. Then she got pregnant from it, not remembering which guy it was (after a drunk WE). I paid her abortion. Then she did it again, got knocked up again. The guy wanted to marry her. Of course I didn't ask her to stay. Good riddance. No tears.
Wow, you gave her more than one chance to change her ways. Sounds like she was a lucky (but wretched) woman, and she blew it. Sorry to hear that she did that to you. Not all women are like her.
@MargaritaPeach She had two red flags I should have seen from start: when we met she had a kind of relationship with a man twice her age. And she told me that at 14 she had eloped with an older guy. (She later gave that guy's first name to her son)
She lost feelings for me. Nothing weird if we consider that things went stale and I was the only one even trying in that relationship.
She later said she made mistake, because she was looking for changes in the places she shouldn't even been looking. Which makes sense when I think about it now when a lot of time has passed.
Because she wouldn't put out after a month. I left, she cried and begged me to stay. Walked ot the door and never looked back. I told her on the first date sex was a requirement. She wanted to wait more than a month, I said no and I dumped her sorry ass,
Thinking that you are entitled to sex on a first date and breaking up with her if she refuses is extremely sexist and shallow. If she's a virgin or something she's not gonna give her virginity away that fast, maybe she's waiting for marriage. I'm not gonna let just anyone put their penis inside me, why? Because they need to earn my trust first. I don't know if this guy is with me because he likes me or he only wants sex.
They broke up with me because they believed a known liar over me
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Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
We were together for two years and one day she started to become distant and refused to spend time with me. Then she posted a picture of herself with another guy on FB saying it was her new boyfriend.
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