What is the best revenge on someone who dumped you?


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  • The best 'revenge' on my ex who cheated on me was nothing spiteful in the slightest. All it took was my simply finding someone i was much happier with overall, and who was able to give me something my ex had never managed to accomplish, even pre-breakup.

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  • "Living well is the best revenge."

    Don't let a setback break you. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, adopt a positive attitude, and re-double your efforts to improve yourself and seek what you want. Learn from your mistakes, be humble, but work harder and be willing to change your thinking and your behavior. Find people who are successful, learn WHY they are successful, and emulate that behavior.

    "Revenge" will take care of itself, without you having to do anything at all specific to that "revenge", if you follow the above tenets.

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  • Cut them out of your life completely and ignore them. Move on despite being dumped.

    I wouldn't even try to prove I can be happy without her , coz that means you're trying to prove you're worth to her. You don't need to prove yourself to her at all

    Revenge is bitter sweet. It's only a temporary feeling off satisfaction. After the fact , your pain and humiliation will still be there. Use that time to heal and move on , instead of becoming bitter and resentful

    If you seek revenge then you're just giving her the satisfaction of watching you suffer. She doesn't deserve that privilege. If she's stupid enough to walk away, be wise enough to cut her off too and move on

    Finding someone else won't bother her coz she wouldn't have dumped you if she didn't want another girl to have you.

    Revealing a secret or confidential info she told you will only make you appear like a bad person and disloyal. It won't be revenge cos it'll backfire. People won't trust you anymore , and other girls will avoid you. It'll just tarnish your character , not your exes

    I judge people's character by how they respond and react when they fall out with someone. I once cut a person out of my life without an explanation coz she'd fallen out with another friend, and pursued revenge by disclosing personal info to me about her. So I ghosted her. She made herself look like an awful disloyal human being , not her ex friend. So her revenge backfired coz she lost me as a friend in her pursuit for revenge. She made me question her character. I look on her as a lowlife now. Other people have since distanced themselves from her too

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  • 1. tell that you want to have a break up sex with them.

    2. get into the 69 position

    3. fart on their face.

    JKJKJK LOL just move on. since you're 30 - 35 it's better to be wise and move on. show how successful and happy you are without them. kill them with success and bury them with a smile.

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  • We shared a computer, my computer. He cheated on me, then physically and sexually abused me when I tried to leave him after the cheating.

    When I finally got all of my stuff back, while he was locked up for a 72 hour psych evaluation, I found that he still had ALL of his logins saved and active on my computer, including several admin accounts to forum sites, and cam chat sites.

    Do I really need to explain further?

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    • Yes please. This should be interesting =)

    • Oh lol I figured it was pretty obvious! I deleted all the accounts that could be deleted, and completely locked him out of all the others, and I changed all his passwords before attempting to delete anything so that he couldn't retrieve the accounts before they could fully deactivate.

      All of his cam girl site logins were registered to the same email that was used as the back up for in case he was ever locked out of his main email.

      I am fine with porn, or syrup bars where you cannot touch yourself or them, but I consider cam girls to be cheating as you can interact with them live and please yourself where they can also watch; I did not know about him going to those, and this was in addition to him cheating having IRL sex with another woman.

    • Savage! Truly savage =)
      That showed him ^^

  • Cliche, but best revenge is really to move on and be happy with another SO or to be happy by yourself. Living a fulfilling life and achieving success and goals is the best revenge. It shows you don't need this person in your life to make you happy.

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  • Just keep living life. I have never understood why people want revenge when dumped. You cannot make a person want to be with you. Like do you seriously expect someone to take their life just to make you happy? That's twisted and they were right to dump you if you're the type to seek revenge.

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  • Revenge. Bitter break up? Lol so far I don't know what to say. Because I had a beautiful relationship with my ex. I never thought of having revenge because his a great guy but i do want him to realize that nobody is going to love him better than me. Lol

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  • Why get revenge? If they don't want you anymore, move on. Have more respect for yourself. Don't try to fit into someone's romantic life who clearly does not want you there. Just continue working on your goals and being healthy and happy. That's the best way to handle getting dumped.

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  • Being more confident and be happy, move on, start a new loving relationship, still be friend with your ex and show your happiness. #iamgladyoudumpedme

    LOL, the pic is hilarious by the way.

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  • It took awhile, but you forgive them and move on. It's very hard and takes awhile to let the hurt go. But it's not the end of the world. The best revenge is to live your life because the person who dumped you is living theirs.

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  • the best revenge is forgiving and moving on. I know it may seem like you're letting him/her get away with it but in the long run, forgiveness is to give YOU peace of mind, not them. So everything you do after that relationship should be for you and bettering you as a person.

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  • I think the best would be something I haven't tried yet, acting overjoyed when they break the news to you. Say, "Oh thank goodness, I was going to bring it up but you beat me to it."

    But the best thing a person did when I broke up with them was smile and say "Ok" and not act upset at all. It was very sweet, light and chill. I don't like it when they get angry or confused.

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  • Moving on and dating someone way hotter than your ex. Then a accidentally run into you ex in public with your hot new mate

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  • Well, I mean you can plot an entire revenge plot with a best friend, however that would be really immature.

    Instead, move on. Enjoy life to the fullest and remove that person from your life. Show them that you are happier without them. That's the best way to make them feel bad without actually, physically hurting them back. Go on a weekend getaway, drive down to the beach at sunset and admire the view, or just go with a good friend to a coffee shop to talk.

    Remember: kill them with kindness. ;)

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  • Don't talk to them, and ignore them, or move somewhere far far away from them, just start a new life man

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  • Best revenge is moving on and living a happy life. If they see you happier without them, that's a win for you. There's no need for revenge, you just need to show them that you're completely fine on your own. BEst of luck xx

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  • The best revenge is moving on with your life.
    Looking great, taking great care of yourself and achieving all your goals.
    Next time the person who left sees you he/she will be shocked.
    Maybe their life did not experience no evolution since then (they are still in the same town, doing the same things, at the same job etc.)
    While you moving forward and taking things to the next level.
    He/she will feel dumb for dumping you and in some cases you might end up getting a text, he/she will try to win you back.

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  • Moving on.
    Never letting on that you might miss them (basically ignore them completely)
    Looking happier now than when you were with them.

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  • work on yourself and make them rethink their life through regret. you'll forget them after you've fully passed on and they will always remember.

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  • I'd say the biggest and best revenge would be to be able to forgive them for breaking your heart and moving on with your own life.

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  • Live a fulfilling active, fun filled life without that person. It'll kill them.

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What Guys Said 97

  • Be a Grown-up. Just accept that they aren't the one, and delete them from your email, phone, Facebook, and whatever.
    Don't respond when they send a 'Drunk Apology, let's get back together,' when the one they dumped you for, dumps them, because they suck rocks!!

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  • Move on to someone better. No need for revenge. Being in a better place with a better partner is all the revenge you need.

    But if you want to be dirty about things, sleep with their best friend... Or date them.

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  • Don't get revenge.. move on and find someone who cares. Then the day will come when your ex finds out and trust me... they will stalk your social media profiles, ask all your friends and try to find out who you are seeing and where they came from... typical.. they always want you when they can't have you. Like a child taking anothers unwanted toy.. always looks better when someone else has it.

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  • Sorry... never been dumped... ghosted twice though... one recent...
    i guess they just didn't have the nerve to say it to my face...(or phone)...
    I have that effect on people :)

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  • The best revenge would be YOU MOVING ON and being successful whether it be in your relationship or in your career, till to the point you do not care about her at all to start on a "revenge" thing.

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  • Obviously move onto someone better and be happy/successful without them.

    But if you want to annoy the shit out of them, post their number on Craigslist in some big city like Chicago for a free lazy boy couch or TV... or better yet, post it in multiple cities

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  • Probably getting on with your life like they were never in it and never mattered. Building yourself into a success. I ran into an ex that dumped me a few years ago for a wealthy guy because I had no prospects, well he dumped her and moved countries leaving her with two kids to raise on her own. Hard not to feel smug though I'm ashamed that I did.

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  • She didn't dump me exactly. We broke up because she was a cheating whore.
    I called her parents and told them what a whore their daughter is. Afterward she e-mailed me crying a river, telling me I shouldn't have done that. Bitch got what she deserved.

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  • Step one: Poop in a little paper bag.
    Step two: walk up to the person's front door.
    Step three: set the poop bag on fire and ring door
    Step four: run to the back door and knock as the person is stomping on the poop bag. Then that person will track crap through the house XD

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  • The only best revenge is actually being able to get them back and give them The finger after...

    Other than that, there is no best revenge... the person dumped you --> you could be a millionaire and they probably wouldn't want to come back...

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  • Revenge? Well, if she dumps you for a dumb reason just keep taking to your friends about how retarded her reasons for breaking up with you are. But if she didn't break up with you for a dumb reason, there's really no point, and you're just being mad

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  • Years ago a girl I dated for her thuggish ex-boyfriend. They were robbing a 7-11. The clerk
    shot and killed both of them. What goes around comes aroun.

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  • I never have taken revenge just realise there's sum 1better out there an what rheyvgive is what they get sides I've had sum mean 1scan nicec1s the nicev1s nice 1s were polite at breaking up an the man 1s made me happy to break up with

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  • success brother success is the best revenge

    do not waste your time, effort and mental/emotional energy trying to hurt some one needlessly when you can use it to heal and improve your situation it will taste better in the end

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  • You can win by getting over 'em and living a life far better without them.

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  • Get a revenge body. It helps. You'll learn self control, you become a calmer and better person.

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  • the best revenge is smiling and not make a big deal of it.. itll mean that you are king with or without them

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  • Revenge is only going to make you more obsessed with that person, won't do you any good. Move on, and ignore for ever after..

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