the best revenge is forgiving and moving on. I know it may seem like you're letting him/her get away with it but in the long run, forgiveness is to give YOU peace of mind, not them. So everything you do after that relationship should be for you and bettering you as a person.
Sorry... never been dumped... ghosted twice though... one recent... i guess they just didn't have the nerve to say it to my face...(or phone)... I have that effect on people :)
The best revenge would be YOU MOVING ON and being successful whether it be in your relationship or in your career, till to the point you do not care about her at all to start on a "revenge" thing.
Revenge? Well, if she dumps you for a dumb reason just keep taking to your friends about how retarded her reasons for breaking up with you are. But if she didn't break up with you for a dumb reason, there's really no point, and you're just being mad
I think the best would be something I haven't tried yet, acting overjoyed when they break the news to you. Say, "Oh thank goodness, I was going to bring it up but you beat me to it."
But the best thing a person did when I broke up with them was smile and say "Ok" and not act upset at all. It was very sweet, light and chill. I don't like it when they get angry or confused.
work on yourself and make them rethink their life through regret. you'll forget them after you've fully passed on and they will always remember.
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You are a grown man of at least 30, if your profile is to be believed, and you STILL think revenge is a thing people should do? Breaking-up is not like an Albanian blood-oath, cripes. Be a man. Wish her well and move on.
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Being more confident and be happy, move on, start a new loving relationship, still be friend with your ex and show your happiness. #iamgladyoudumpedme
LOL, the pic is hilarious by the way.
The only best revenge is actually being able to get them back and give them The finger after...
Other than that, there is no best revenge... the person dumped you --> you could be a millionaire and they probably wouldn't want to come back...
Moving on and dating someone way hotter than your ex. Then a accidentally run into you ex in public with your hot new mate
the best revenge is forgiving and moving on. I know it may seem like you're letting him/her get away with it but in the long run, forgiveness is to give YOU peace of mind, not them. So everything you do after that relationship should be for you and bettering you as a person.
Sorry... never been dumped... ghosted twice though... one recent...
i guess they just didn't have the nerve to say it to my face...(or phone)...
I have that effect on people :)
The best revenge would be YOU MOVING ON and being successful whether it be in your relationship or in your career, till to the point you do not care about her at all to start on a "revenge" thing.
Revenge? Well, if she dumps you for a dumb reason just keep taking to your friends about how retarded her reasons for breaking up with you are. But if she didn't break up with you for a dumb reason, there's really no point, and you're just being mad
I think the best would be something I haven't tried yet, acting overjoyed when they break the news to you. Say, "Oh thank goodness, I was going to bring it up but you beat me to it."
But the best thing a person did when I broke up with them was smile and say "Ok" and not act upset at all. It was very sweet, light and chill. I don't like it when they get angry or confused.
Revenge is only going to make you more obsessed with that person, won't do you any good. Move on, and ignore for ever after..
Moving on.
Never letting on that you might miss them (basically ignore them completely)
Looking happier now than when you were with them.
Don't talk to them, and ignore them, or move somewhere far far away from them, just start a new life man
Yup agree with NerdInDenial
they will hate it knowing you're happy if not happier without them :)
I'd say the biggest and best revenge would be to be able to forgive them for breaking your heart and moving on with your own life.
the best revenge is smiling and not make a big deal of it.. itll mean that you are king with or without them
work on yourself and make them rethink their life through regret. you'll forget them after you've fully passed on and they will always remember.
You are a grown man of at least 30, if your profile is to be believed, and you STILL think revenge is a thing people should do? Breaking-up is not like an Albanian blood-oath, cripes. Be a man. Wish her well and move on.
Get a revenge body. It helps. You'll learn self control, you become a calmer and better person.
being the best person you can be and show them what they are missing
Live a fulfilling active, fun filled life without that person. It'll kill them.
success... is the best revenge.