Your girlfriend in her early 20's when you started dating her (left). Your girlfriend in her late 20's after 2 years of marriage (far right). She does not plan to lose the weight. Would you leave her?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm I don't think it's as simple as yes or no...
if my partner gained significant weight and refused to acknowledge the health issues for himself, the fact he was jeopardising our future together with having children as well as how my physical attraction to him would change then yes - I would leave. Even though it's his body it impacts US and if he wasn't willing to work on bettering us I wouldn't stay.
If he was willing to lose weight with me and I could see him putting in effort - no matter how slow - I would stay1
Most Helpful Guy
If she's unwilling to change then yes. What if the role was flipped and it was me that refused to lose weight and just keep getting fatter and fatter? I would expect her to leave me. You have to put in effort and compromise.6