Would you leave your wife if she went from thin to fat?

[Anonymous]

Your girlfriend in her early 20's when you started dating her (left). Your girlfriend in her late 20's after 2 years of marriage (far right). She does not plan to lose the weight. Would you leave her?

Yes

No

[Wonderer89]

Hmm I don't think it's as simple as yes or no...
if my partner gained significant weight and refused to acknowledge the health issues for himself, the fact he was jeopardising our future together with having children as well as how my physical attraction to him would change then yes - I would leave. Even though it's his body it impacts US and if he wasn't willing to work on bettering us I wouldn't stay.

If he was willing to lose weight with me and I could see him putting in effort - no matter how slow - I would stay

[Anonymous]

Wow.. this is really dumb. Some women gain weight through pregnancy, or have sicknesses such as thyroid issues, and it scientifically proven that metabolism gets slower as you age and your genetics become the key factor if you stay thin or not. The woman goes through so many bodily changes and has a baby for a pathetic loser of a man who wants to leave her because she gained weight...

[heather4N0w]

No because if she can go from Thin to Fat then she can go from Fat to thin and if you leave her and she goes back to thin then your going to hate yourself for letting go of such a hot woman.

[curiousnorway]

If my partner didn't want to lose weight, I would considering ending the romance. Especially if my partner didn't have any condition making it difficult to lose weight, but rather are just lazy and choose to not do anything with it. I would still be a friend, but I'm just not attracted to fat people. If I'm not attracted, it won't work. A relationship without romance and other things is basically a friendship.

[JacobAS]

If she's unwilling to change then yes. What if the role was flipped and it was me that refused to lose weight and just keep getting fatter and fatter? I would expect her to leave me. You have to put in effort and compromise.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

I'm not dumb enough to get married again, but if I bumped my head and got into a relationshit and she started getting fat, she'd be single again. It's not only unattractive, it's also disrespectful. Women KNOW that men are not attracted to lardarse women, so if she becomes a hambeast she's showing that she doesn't give a fuck what you think and she expects you to just be a good little simp and be happy for ANY gash, even fat gash.

[AnitaTheologo]

if you're asking that type of question you should be more concerned about how superficial you are. if she has developed health issues then for that reason you should help her loose weight but if you want to leave her because she picked up weight then I can say you loved what she looked like not her as a person.

[itsmeuc]

exactly what I think!

[imactuallynoah]

Its funny how many guys disliked this post because most of the guys out there are 90% into looks, even tho they claim to be in lobe with the persons soul.

[Asker]

@imactuallynoah betas gonna beta.

[InvictaDaemonium]

wouldn't leave her, but would be worried about her health. My current girlfriend is far far too skinny and I try to get her to gain weight but its hard. I wouldn't leave her over it but it makes me worry a lot.

[IHateLife]

I guarantee those 4 women that voted "no" would never date a fat guy. Well, they would if he was rich.

[JayCasper777]

well if you got married unless you got got that prenuptial your fucked. so you'll have this land whale attached to you lmao

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Even a prenup won't help.

[JayCasper777]

really?
how's that work?
I guess if she got a good lawyer...

[Barrabus_the_Free]

It doesn't even take a good lawyer. All she has to do is bat her eyes at the right judge and say that she didn't understand it, and the judge will throw it out. Or she could say she signed it under duress ("He wouldn't marry me unless I signed it"), and the judge will throw it out.

Plus, prenups can't cover things that the court considers its domain, like child custody and Mommy's Party Fund Support.

It only takes a couple hours of reading to learn just how worthless prenups are. But it can save your ass to do that reading.

[JayCasper777]

dawm... well. no wonder less people are getting married in america...

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Yeah but that's only a very small part of the reason. Prenups only exist in the first place because of how one-sided marriage and divorce are.

[FissionStockMaster]

Not if fat, but that obese. If she can't see how serious a health problem being that size is then I'm sorry, but I'm out. It's not the size alone, but the mentality, that drives me away.

[mattmanyah]

no marriage is until death not until I get tired of you

[Goodwifie]

My husband has put on weight and there is no way that I would leave him for being a little tubby around the tummy.

[Anonymous]

no! because she still looks beautiful. and in the late stages, love isn't about looks anymore. its about loving the personality. and you'll never feel the same with any other attractive girls the way if you love her.

[Opinion Owner]

but to tell her you're not comfortable like this and you miss how she looked when you fell for her. and help her loose weight. that's what you should do.

[alice55]

Shouldn't you be more worried about her health than how she look? To see how she's fat I'm sure she would have lot of health problem.

[Browneye57]

More than likely, yes.
The pic on the left is stunning.
The middle pic is stomach-turning.

And I married a 'big' girl. But she has pretty much stayed the same for almost thirty years.

[Anonymous]

Yes the girl in the picture is too fat.

[Anonymous]

Can I leave my partner because he is turning fat insanely.

[legalboxers]

A resounding "NO". You made a vow, and you damn well stick with it

[TrollG0D]

Yup. Why the hell would I stay? It's embarrassing to be seen with that... I'm no chubby chaser!

[Anonymous]

No, but I would no longer be sexually interested in her and wouldn't want to cuddle anymore. It would be more like friends I guess.

[LemonadeProphet]

I'd try my best to get her back into shape

[Ireneo]

No. I she got fat married with me, better for me. More for to love.

[Anonymous]

No.. But i will also become fat af. And will have to accept me the way i will become

[Opinion Owner]

she will have to accept**

[Sam19XX]

No but i wouldn't allow her to stay in that shape.