I have been dating this girl for 2 1/2 months, she was all about me for he first two months, but after she her summer course she seemed less involved, I didn't let it bother me at first till I found myself texting her more then she would me. I gave in asked her if every thing was cool, she said yes. well never the less two weeks later she canceled a date we had planned, I thought she was done with me so I didn't talk to her for two days until she finally texted me asking me is everything was OK, and I just told her yes in order to not seem needy, Well I'm at the point were I'm not sure how she feels, we have a date to a concert planned for next week, Just would like things to be back to how they use to be and she was about me and I was about her.
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You screwed up at some point. Somewhere she lost respect for you. She may have found someone else that she is more attracted to than you.
I know what's its like to be in your situation. The illogical part of your brain is telling you to keep contacting her. When I was your age I was moron when it came to this and kept calling girls.
You are on the ball to notice her behavior in her and making steps to "not to seem needy". Pretty sharp for a young guy (how old are you?)
Go to the concert and have a real good time. Do NOT contact her unless you have to before then. Afterwards wait for her to contact you. Withdraw from her some more if she keeps this attitude.
Remember women are attracted to challenge. That's why they like jerks. This can go both ways with both sexes but I truly believe women ARE FAR STUPIDER when it comes to this. But you can't blame mother nature...you have to play the game.1