And she told me about it... she said it just happened in spur of the moment and she is feeling bad about it!
Most Helpful Girl
mm I would say give her a chance if you feel that she is sincerely sorry and feeling guilty for it, if she is crying and scared of losing you, then give her a chance... We area all human and shit can happen, I believe the fact that she told you means that she was not planning to betray you. If you love her give her some rough time by telling her that you can't trust her, and maybe even leave the house for few days so she could feel scared of losing you. The only part i find strange is that you are saying that she told you the experience was great and fun.. why would she say that?0
Most Helpful Guy
That's a tough one, but I would lean towards divorcing her. You see, if she really cared and felt bad about it, she simply just wouldn't do it again and would leave it at that. In my view, telling you doesn't show character, it shows her selfishness because she didn't tell you for your benefit, but for hers because she supposedly felt guilty.
if you have significant assets, I would be careful here but I would kick her to the curb. I wouldn't let her know this though. I would make all of your preparations then when you're ready, have her served with divorce papers because the less time she has to prepare, the more likely you'll be able to avoid a really messy battle.1