Eventually, you will get past it. You will feel completely normal talking to her, because you will have moved on. The thing is some people move on fast, especially if their heart hasn't been broken. If you had broken up with someone, you would kind of hope that they wouldn't be mad at you. Right? You'd want to still be friends. If you've dated someone it's not like you had nothing in common, there has to be a potential for friendship. By no means am I saying she's right, but I am saying that you can't blame her for wanting to be friends. She still cares, just not the same way you do.
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I believe she might still feel guilty about breaking up with you. She still likes you but not as much and then having another boyfriend so soon adds up to her guilt. She might be acting a little selfish right now, like wanting you to be okay that she is happy with another guy. But you have every right to be selfish yourself. If you are not OK with it, let her know. You deserve to be happy and to be with someone who cares for you.
Chances are she enjoyed your friendship. Just because she isn't attracted to you anymore doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy spending time with you (on the friend level).
You liked her personality as well, right? If two people just aren't right for each other, but still like to be around each other, I see no issue with being friends.
If you don't want to be her friend because you are still hurt, you didn't care about your friendship with her that much, or whatever reason, then just tell her and don't be friends.
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