My ex ended our relationship two months ago and got a new boyfriend two weeks later. We didn't speak for a month or so and once we became friends I had to find out she had this boyfriend. While she ans I were together she would always talk to this guy and at times I got jealous. When I found out she chose this guy over me I was crushed and being friends was too hard to do as it really hurts to see how easily replaced I was. After ignoring my ex for a while she broke the silence and talked to me about a movie I told her I saw weeks ago. She said she really liked the film too and tried to make normal conversation. The next day she tweeted that you can't save someone once they're gone, and how upset she was that we weren't talking or having a friendship. Can someone explain this to me? I don't feel there's anything there with her since she more or less broke my heart, and I think by now she should have figured that out. It feels like she's just being selfish.
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Eventually, you will get past it. You will feel completely normal talking to her, because you will have moved on. The thing is some people move on fast, especially if their heart hasn't been broken. If you had broken up with someone, you would kind of hope that they wouldn't be mad at you. Right? You'd want to still be friends. If you've dated someone it's not like you had nothing in common, there has to be a potential for friendship. By no means am I saying she's right, but I am saying that you can't blame her for wanting to be friends. She still cares, just not the same way you do.0