I broke up with my ex because I thought he didn't care about me ( he never communicated his feelings) But recently I seen he blocked me on Facebook. Is he being spiteful?
Most Helpful Guy
geee, i love it how girls are the ones that always wonder why the other half blocked them on social media.
It's like "it's a just a break-up, why is he so childish, life goes on, we can stay friends, maybe in 20 years time we look back at it and have a laugh". what?
that poor sap imagined that in 20 years time you will be at your children's graduation and you two will look back at how your children grew up and high five each other.
this kind of questions, plus my added experience of seeing relationships around me falling apart, make me believe (personal opinion, so fuck off) ... that girls get over way faster or invest in a relationship in a different way compared to guys.
There's this girl that I had a huge crush on, but I did not make a move, as I had some other things on my mind... She eventually started dating some dude, while still trying to get to me. I only found that later.
we kind of lost touch for a year and now it happened for us to start working together. she is still with that guy, but she started to act like back in the day when she was single and trying to get me.
So the only explanation is: the relationship she has with that guy is just a conjuncture relationship, a disposable one, that she will have no problem ending out of the blue if she feels like it.
Why she got in that in the first place? to prove herself, to prove to others, because "serious girls" are in a relationship and you get to post on social media and people validate you (?)
on the other hand guys tend to not care about the pressure of having a relationship. So when I personally like someone enough to get in a relationship with that person, then that relationship is not just to pass the time.1
Most Helpful Girl
did you ask what he feels?
you can hurt a guy a lot when you shout the "you don't care about me" into his face when he actually do cares about you!
you just might not notice the ways he shows he cares.
usually people block the other when pissed off, sad, annoyed0