I gave my ex an ultimatum because seeing him hurt me too much, will he resent me for giving him an ultimatum?

I told my ex boyfriend either we're in a relationship or we can't be friends is this an ultimatum ?

My ex boyfriend wanted to still be friends after we broke up a month ago for me being fed up with his continuous disrespect to me, we slept together a couple times after we broke up and continued to say he wanted to be friends. But friends to us is doing the same things we did while we were together except no commitment. I can't do it anymore so tonight I told him if it's going to be like this then either we are together or not see or talk to each other again not until at least we get over each other. He kept telling me he wants to be friends and he still wants to see me and I said no not unless you are my boyfriend or until I don't have feelings for you anymore, I just don't want him to string me along or use me for hook ups without being tied in a relationship. Is this an ultimatum will he resent me for this? I just figure if he really loves me in due time he will come back. Did what I do wrong? Please tell me your opinions. If he really loves me will he come back?
I gave my ex an ultimatum because seeing him hurt me too much, will he resent me for giving him an ultimatum?
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