My ex and I have been friends since we broke up over a year ago. I keep on dating here and there but haven't found anything special and he is doing the same. We talked about crossing that line again and that's not were we see ourselves, well mostly he doesn't see himself in a relationship anytime soon. We really close we talk and talk about things that worry us and about pretty much anything on our minds. We can go out to dinners, movies, stay in and watch movies and have a WONDERFUL time. I started falling for him more and more due to him acting as a boyfriend instead of friend these past few weeks. Holding my hand while we're walking, cuddling me even if we're just watching TV, kissing me just because.. SO here is the question... Is he falling in love with me? Or he is just using me till he finds the next girl?
Am I just a filler until he finds someone else?
What Guys Said 1
Actions speak louder than words. If this contiunes, it seems like he is really into you. But at the same time, as this has happened to me just recently with my ex girlfriend, it could be that it's just because it's safe and comfortable.
Be careful because if you start putting your feelings in and then a week later, he becomes distant, it's most likely that he was just using you because he was feeling lonely. I hope I'm wrong for your sake. I fell for my ex girlfriend after being in the same situation you are in now, and now it's been almost a month since I've heard from her.
Just watch yourself hun. To save yourself from getting crushed and resenting him, tell him how you feel about the situation. Communication is key. Because I don't want you to feel like I do, it's not a good place to be, especially around the holidays.0
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