me and my ex boyfriend for a year broke up about a month ago and it was long distance and we went back and forth with living where he lives and than were I live during the summer. so I have some of his stuff, his favorite sunglasses a hoodie he gave me .
it's to hard seeing this stuff and I don't really think I could throw it out.
he stopped talking to me because he felt like it would be easier for me to get over him.
i don't know if he hates me but he told me he couldn't come see me one more time because it would make him love me even more so should I message him and ask him if he wants it back or just leave it ?
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Do Not Message Him!
He needs time to heal as do you.
I was in a similar situation but I disliked the guy a lot after. After having some of his things at my placing not even out in sight but knowing it was in the back of my closet and under my bed I felt like I needed to take care of it. I still wasn't over him so I had a large bonfire had some friends over and burned it. While his things burned I said reasons why I was happy the relationship is over!
It really helped me heal. It was awesome!
I don;t know how old you are since you are under 18 you might want someone to supervise you. Fire is dangerous!1