Why do girls go back to cheaters and liars?

Ok, so I was with this girl for a little over a year. Prior to our relationship she dated a kid for about 4 years, beginning at around age 18. They had broken up many many times due to him cheating and lieing to her. She had never had another boyfriend besides for her ex until I came along. When I had met her they werent even together and I'm pretty sure he had done something bad to her around the time I did meet her. A lot of the stuff that he did to her is really really terrible stuff. Her family does not like him and I don't think her friends want her getting back with him. Throughout our relationship, her ex would constantly text her and wouldn't leave her alone. We almost broke up about 6 months into the relationship because of her ex. Eventually, after many months of fighting with him- probably more than we fought- it got to the point where she told me that she couldn't just not be his friend. I knew what was coming eventually, and I did nothing to stop it until I foudn out she had lied to me and was hanging out with him. When I broke up with her, hoping it would be a reality check, she turned it around on me and basically told me she was going to start talking to her ex again. a couple weeks after the break up we talked again and eventually hung out and it was very obvious that we both missed each other. When I confronted her again about getting back with her ex she told me that she is talking to him again and trying to not rush into anything. She was extremely close with my family and all my friends and we could do anything together. She basically lived at my house and was basically part of my family. Perhaps all we ever needed was a break. I was so good to her and would have never cheated on her or done anything to ruin my relationship with her. I don't understand why she would ever going back to her ex after he has cheated and lied to her so so so many times throughout their relationship. It kills me, mainly because I lost my best friend and the one person who I loved and was closest too. Id appreciate any feedback, thank you
Why do girls go back to cheaters and liars?
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