I can't get her face out of my head. She was head turning gorgeous (like Natalie Portmans twin!) and I'm struggling to move on. I'm considered good looking and have had some great looking girls in the past but she was the most beautiful girl I have seen and I don't know how to forget her. I was smitten from day one! I've accepted we won't get back together but the problem is I don't feel like any other girl matches up looks wise. I'm not being shallow. It wasn't just her looks, I loved her personality too and she made me laugh. But it was the fact she seemed to have it all that makes me feel so bad. Am I still just heartbroken? It's been 3 months and I've never taken this long to get over a girl (even one's I believed I was in love with). Do I just need more time?
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I am still heartbroken from a longterm relationship that he ended 3 months because of distance which we did for a year after we started going out and he just gave up. I know I still feel he is perfect and the best guy but he left and he took me for granted. If your ex wants to talk to you she will. I did try to get my ex back after a month and spilled my feelings out because I felt I just needed to put it all out there and know I said what I needed to. it helped me move on a bit more because I felt maybe he didn;t know how much I care for him. Even though he still didn't want to do the distance anymore I know that I have no regrets. Maybe you just telling her how you feel can help but it could hurt you more if you expected a different outcome from her. Especially if you have been with her for a long time a partner will get weird I noticed. I did before my ex got distant but he wouldn't let me break up with him even though I was horrible. but then my feelings came back after a semester and wanted him again. people get confused and you never know. Just don't keep it all inside. it will bottle up and hurt you more. Just it will take a while and don't feel like something is wrong with you because it does take time and change in your life to help build new memories that overpower the old you had with her. But don't put your life on hold for her. it will prolong your healing.0