My ex and I broke up over 6 months ago (we broke up twice) so we have not talked. She recently came into trouble and called me and on our conversation, she told me when she hears my voice and laugh, she feels happy and it abdicates her pain and sadness. What do you all think? Does she still have feelings for me?
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It means you are safe. You know her, you know what she wants to hear. She does still have feelings for you, but they are not the feelings you have for a lover, they are feelings she has of a safety net.
I'll admit that I occasionally have the temptation to call my exhusband. He's still my friend, he knows me better than anyone. We were together for 10 years and have a daughter together. He knows me, my reactions and what I need to hear. Drives my boyfriend bonkers, but sometimes I just need that safety of someone who knows everything about me to tell me it's going to be ok.
Bottom line: you're a safety net, don't let her back, you'll regret it0