Have you ever made a decision like this that hurt your heart but you knew would be good for you? (Page 2)
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I've never seen anything bad written about you on here, but it shouldn't take long for you be convinced and not have it bother you anymore.
I'm working on it... it's hard when it is happening multiple times a day. He wants the reaction from me, I think.
Yes. You can miss something and know it is bad for you. Happens to most people who've quit smoking.
Removing a toxic person from your life is a healthy move.
If he’s shitting about you on social media, his maturity level is low af.
Well, if I'm being honest.. I retaliated a bit. But now he's gone off the deep end.
The sour words of a bitter ex don't define who you are. They are simply artifacts of the broken man who was never worthy of your love and affection.
😘 thank you, darlin.
Yes I have, like cutting off a toxic "best friend". It was hard but my life has become so much better without her in it :)
Yes, and it does hurt at first, but in the long run it is respect and love for yourself doing what needs to be done. Letting go is never easy.
Awwwww, Contrary to popular belief I'm rubbish when it comes to real advise and useful tips, all I can offer is silly stories of the ridiculous scrapes I've got myself into, poor jokes and a willingness to offer an ear for anyone who needs to vent any frustration/problems/rants they need to get off there chest. What I will say though is what I know about yourself is you deserve someone hopelessly (see I didn't say totally this time lol) devoted to you x
I don't know who your ex is but your a sweet girl and should grt the sweet things, if a woman is good to her husband and love him to death, the least he can do, is to make her happy, take care of her and protect her like she's one of his babies and even more because she's their mother.
I almost stayed with my foster family instead of returning back to my mothers. There was always food, I had clothing and I could focus on my school, I mean, what else would an 11 year old need? It would've tremendously helped me but I ended up backing out of it after I was told none of my siblings would return if I was to do that.
yes, I decided to cancel my plan for finishing college in another country so I can stay with my parents because they need me, I found a job and I start online courses to finish with a degree... I wanted so travel so badly but now I just accepted the reality...
Yeah and I know it will always hurt like hell but I have started to put myself first.
My sister had to break up with a guy she was planning on marrying when he wanted to live in Atlanta for Grad School. That would have given her a 5 hour commute to her school every day. Originally they planned for a 3 hour commute for him and a 3 hour commute to her. Plus she was only going to that school to be with him, she liked another school better.
Yeah many times, as they say " the good medicine is never sweet"
On my 18th birthday I left my mom for good and never spoke to her again
Curios, and only if you wish to share, what happened with your mother?
She was a terrible person to not only me but everyone that knew her (they all are gone now)
Some parents, some people are rotten to the core. Sorry to hear one of them had to be your mother. Don't completely lose touch though as she may change on day and you may not want to miss that opportunity for healing. (It does happen.)
Its just that she was never good from the start, I have never seen her the way i had always wanted to and i never will
Yes. When I created a barrier that cut off an old friend. It was very very hard to do. But it was the right thing to do
Yeah, sometimes you have to get out of toxic situations for the betterment of your mental and emotional health.
I hate those days sometimes I've just let it go and sometimes depending what is about you can't it's kinda weird not matter what you do it's going to hut for a few min
Well, I've ditched some toxic friends before... I don't have many friends, and when that happened it kinda hurt... But I knew it was better than dealing with their shit. And it turns out I was right.
Im still working on giving up on my ex. Giving up on her hurt lika mf, but its what i needed to do to make my life better.
Keep on keeping on baby! We got your back. Can I have your front? Lol!