Does cheating on a cruise count?

[Anonymous]

people say its like the same thing as Vegas... what happens on the cruise stays on the cruise... lol I got some p**** on the cruise and my friend said I cheated on my gf... just wondering yes or no?

YES! that was wrong!

Yes but it doesn't really matter (explain why)

No it wasn't

Is this really a question (check poll)

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+1 y

i had sex on the cruise, not p0rn... I feel like a mega asshole shold I tell her? or since it won't happen again should I not tell her?

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+1 y

haha thanks to Emperor Leto I decided that relationships at my age really don't mean sh*t so yeah I'm not gonna tell her and I'm still get all the p**** I want ha ha yay for me =P

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+1 y

ah god this is to much thank god I didn't actually do it! ha ha I had so many girls tryin to get on my d*** but I was to moral to do it and my friends were makin fun of me because I didn't do any of them... but I'm glad I would have felt like an ass if I did it =P sorry if I got yall pissed for nothing

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+1 y

my dad cheated on my mom so I would never cheat I learned from his mistake I guess that's one thing that came from it...

[cun7n1nja]

Cheating is cheating is cheating, lol. Unless it was agreed upon before you left that you have a free pass for the cruise or something. But it doesn't sound like that's the case. I think honesty is the best policy. You feel like an asshole, you obviously feel guilt. I say you be straight up with your girlfriend and tell her what happened, and how you feel about it now. You probably don't want her to leave you. But if you care about her and respect her, you should be honest and give her the OPTION to leave. Maybe she won't, maybe she will, but you owe her that option because you f.ucked up. If nothing else, she'll appreciate the honesty, and you'll look better for doing the honorable thing.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

This, exactly this. If you're going to lie for your own selfish "I WANT TO BE WITH HER" reason you're only proving you are an ass.

[cun7n1nja]

Thank you, I agree with that sentiment, haha.

[ShootingStar5]

Wow, of course it's still cheating! General rule of thumb: IT'S ALWAYS CHEATING! It doesn't matter where you are, even in Vegas. It's not a fairy tale land where you can do things and they're magically erased by genies. Cheating is still cheating. Sure your friends may never say anything to your girlfriend and she may never find out about it. But that doesn't make it any less wrong and it's still an awful thing to do to your girl who you're supposed to care about. Why are you with her if you wanna be sleeping around with other girls?

[Asker]

i don't wanna be with other girls but that's besides the point I did it and that makes me an ass I know I was just hopin maybe people said it doesn't but I knew it was wrong

[human_condition]

Yes it counts, all cheating counts. But I voted that it doesn't matter, because you're young and an idiot, and this could be the wake-up call the girl needs to find someone better, and to learn to judge their real character before getting into a relationship with a pathetic loser.

You, on the other hand, need to grow up and stick with your own hand until you learn to keep it in your pants.

Hopefully in five year's time you'll no longer be a complete douche.

[Asker]

haha bitch oh well I thought a lot worse than that bout myself

[Jawless]

Well, considering you are set to under 18 I guess you do have a small way to go before you understand life and stuff, I guess.

Cheating on someone generally means doing something you should only really do with the original person, with anyone else, including having sex, or whatever it is you did on your cruise.

Simply put, you cheated on her. It is wrong, and I voted A, but she could be nasty or lazy or something, so that could potentially justify the fact that you did it, I guess. Though I disagree with cheating altogether - just tell her you don't like her, don't ruin her life further by cheating on her before doing so.

Erm, enjoy your relationship, man. :)

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

The definition of cheating doesn't change depending on your location.

[b_luvedbaby]

Wow, you're unreal. F*** your girlfriend, f*** her feelings, f*** breaking her heart, f*** her tears. Way to be a man! (I hope she finds out and f***s your best friend)

[Asker]

haha I like your hat =P nut yeah I wouldn't do that I would feel to much like an ass

[barbados]

Be a f***ing man and tell the poor girl.

Karma is a bitch and you had the balls to cheat... so go be a man and tell her that.

Even when you're young relationships can MEAN something. Sure you can make mistakes but you have to be a man and face the consequences. If you're old enough to have sex you're old enough for the consequences.

If you like the girl just a little bit be fair and tell her. She deserves better.

[barbados]

yeah suuuuure... like I said... karma is a bitch...

[Asker]

haha its OK karma won't affect me till next life, I like ta f*** with people its fuuny =P (mess with people)

[barbados]

yeah, it's fun to mess with people... how about you tell your girlfriend (if you really HAVE a girlfriend, since you lied and all) that you cheat on her and than tell her: 'nah it's a joke. I like to mess with ya.' see if she likes it :)

even if it was a joke (since I'm not sure I believe it) it wasn't funny... when your father cheated on your mom you should know that cheating isn't funny...

[Asker]

id rather not tell her that ='( you ruined the fun of it. now I feel like an ass for lying... sorry.

[udolipixie]

Nothing is cheating unless you would feel cheated on if it was done to you.

Yes if it would matter if your girlfriend was getting d*cked out on cruises.

No if it wouldn't matter if your girlfriend was getting d*cked out on cruises.

[Asker]

... true true

[udolipixie]

Tell her if you would like to know if she cheated even just once.

Don't tell her if you would not want to know.

However if you don't tell her you can't get all high and mighty if she does cheat on you and doesn't tell you or if she gets caught cheating.

[Asker]

good answer screw whoever downarrowed

[udolipixie]

Do you know what you're going to do?

[Asker]

idk according to your reasoning I would def. have to tell her.. but I might not tell her just as a certainty that I would never do it again... like the whole cruise I was upset because I couldn't talk to her I felt like a piece of my heart was missing and when I actually cheated I felt like killin myself. I def don't want to lose her but I don't think it would be fair to not tell her so I'm kinda weighing options

[udolipixie]

What options?

Either tell her or lie to her (omission is a lie since I doubt you'll come up to a situation where she asks did you cheat on me?)

Feeling guilty doesn't make a difference it just means you know it's wrong.

How do you know it'll never happen again- there maybe times when you can't talk to her, when she travels out of town, etc. How will you handle those times?

Don't tell her if it's okay for her to cheat on you if it's just once and will never happen again.

Tell her if it's not.

[udolipixie]

Just handle the situation like you would want her to handle it with you.

[star709]

you should tell her,

your going to have to live with it, if you don't kinda shows how much you actually care about her.

i would put that in if you explain it to her, she not going to be happy.

who knows what that girl has,you never know.

what made you do it ? though

[Asker]

i really really hate saying no to anybody... a friend of mine called me at 2am and asked me if I could go to her house and get her keys because she didn't wanna ask her dad since she was high... I said yes that's just one example but yeah she was like a friend and then we were hangin out by oursleves one night and she basically attacked me...

[star709]

she attacked you but you couldn't say no? please

you got to work on that.that seems like a major excuse.

if your respect her, I ttell her

[Asker]

no I couldve easily said no... that's the upsetting thing, its just that I don't like saying no and it was easier just to go along... I hate being a f***in p**** it sux...

[Distant]

Porn is NOT cheating. You're in the clear, my friend.

~Distant

[Distant]

However, if the censor is "Poosay" then yes, you have indeed cheated, lol.

~Distant

[slipslender]

lmfao. YES. it's cheating. is this the girl you posted all those questions about? it seemed like you really loved her, what happened?!

[Asker]

idk I'm stupid I really actually feel like a mega! asshole ='( that's what my friend said to try and make me feel better... I just hate saying no to anyone... and she kept buggin me about it, as soon as it happened tho I felt like jumpin of the vruise to be honest

[slipslender]

:/ god that sucks. needa learn how to keep it in your pants. are you going to tell your girlfriend the truth?

[slipslender]

@ your update...if you tell her, I think things would end between you two. you sure you even want to be in a relationship?

[Asker]

with her yeah... besides her no

[slipslender]

i wouldn't tell her then. just don't f*** up again.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

F*** that, tell her. Regardless. It'll always nag at you or she'll eventually find out anyways and it'll be even worse. Better to let her know. You work hard you MIGHT get her back (or she might be willing to even keep trying cause your honesty), but you shouldn't hide sh*t this huge.

[Asker]

haha yeah I think your right it sucked anyway I haven't even had sex with her yet but I like her so much better!

[slipslender]

if I were in her shoes, I'd break up with him. cheating this early on in the relationship (I believe it's a pretty new relationship), is disastrous. I wouldn't be able to forgive something like that...i say, don't tell her only if you really devote yourself to being a good boyfriend. if you think you're just going to end up cheating again, then do both of yourselves a favor and end things now.

[Asker]

hmm good advice, devote myself to being a good bf? what does that mean because I really want to be...

[slipslender]

it means don't cheat! be there for her, show her you care, etc.

[Asker]

oh... I can do that, I wish I had just said no in the first place! god I'm stupid...

[slipslender]

use this is as a learning experience I guess. don't make the same mistake twice.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

So you'd rather he lie? She's going to find out, and even if not, why should he get her AND gotten to cheat? That's bullsh*t. He needs to come clean cause if he has any sort of conscious he'd still feel like sh*t the entire time and that WILL cause problems in the relationship.

Condoning lying to get what he wants is really wrong...

[slipslender]

i totally understand what you're saying, and normally that would be my viewpoint- but I think telling the truth would kill any chances of the relationship growing into something more...if he truly repents what he did and 'mends his ways' then couldn't this situation just be the event that showed him exactly how much she means to him? trust me, I know cheating/lying is wrong- but this is the advice I'd give to a guy trying to save a relationship.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Then it's a life lesson for him and he can grow from it. But not telling is only showing he's an asshole because it's selfish. It's lying so he can get what he wants (aka to be with her). And considering his age, let's be honest, it's VERY unlikely the relationship will last after high school or even college years.

[Asker]

that is the honest truth bra good point, so why the f*** should I tell her lol hows she gonna find out the girs from the other f***in side of the US ima just f*** whoever know because your right relationships my age don't count for sh*t thanks emperor leo !

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

And you just proved you are EXACTLY an asshole. Just because it's unlikely to last doesn't mean it wouldn't have. You're selfish and a prick. I never said it COULDN'T last. Hell, my friend is getting married in a few months to his high school sweet heart, but he's a million times more mature, awesome, and stronger than you apparently.

[WovenEclipse]

I'd count that as cheating :(

[Asker]

yeah I know

[Anonymous]

Well if your girlfriend screwed a guy on a cruise, would you consider yourself cheated on?

Just look at it the other way around and you'll see the answer.

[Asker]

i already know that I would have been real upset...

[jacquesvol]

Tell your girl that you f***ed around but that you on't consider that cheating because it was on a trip. Maybe she'll understand, maybe she'll dump you. Just try it out. You'll finally know.

Btw, can, I have her #?

[Asker]

lol this is a really old question, haven't heard from her in a while XP

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Yes it's wrong.. you cheated. And cheating is cheating. Be it Vegas or anywhere else. Would you want your girlfriend f***ing on a cruise or Vegas? I doubt it. You're an ass and don't deserve her. Tell her what you did and suffer the consequences.

[Asker]

cool asshole because you defintiley know me enough to cal me an ass

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

You are an ass, cheating even once makes you such. You seriously don't deserve anyone if you're EVER going to be so weakminded to even cheat once.

[Unique334]

yeahh cheating pretty much makes you an ass dude

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Because I'm blunt you're going to prove you're an asshole? Way to go douche, way to go.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

So now we're going with the full of sh*t cop-out "I didn't really do it, this was just a test" thread? lol, good one. That's totally original

in case it's too hard for you to figure out, that's sarcasm.

[Asker]

haha p**** ass bitch I really don't care if you believe me or not you can f***in think whatever the hell you want be and me an ignorant **** licker I really don't care...

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Lol, and you show just how immature you are with every update and post you make. It's awesome.

[Asker]

=P ha ha immature I'm not an adult why the f*** would I wanna act like one? hard ass and no friends yeah I got plenty of time to be "mature" before I die... f*** off

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

You're not an adult so you don't have to act mature? Man you're going to have one sh*tty life.

[Asker]

haha cept I'm perfectly happy with my life and if your happy with urs running around pretending to be better than other people then by all means live your little selfconceited ignorant and unfulfilling life f***in homosexual

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

You really need to stop being so immature, it's really not going to get you far soon. Just cause you have your butt buddies pounding your ass every week praising you for your stupid high school accomplishments doesn't mean it'll amount to ANYTHING in the real world.

[malakai]

if you were perfectly happy with your life you wouldn't have cheatedd on your girl.

[Asker]

@malakai I didn't cheat on my girl...

at other guy well seeing as I've gotten into prestigious programs such as the NATIONAL YOUTH LEADERSHIP FORUM OF MEDICINE, umm talked to several dea agents and am planning to go on into the DEA, or be a doctor both doors are open at this time... yeah my stupid high school accomplishments I prob know more sh*t than you do and your annoying old f***... real world? your f***in old and your still on the enternet attacking people for no reason... hope your happy with how

[Asker]

far your "maturity" has gotten you and your succesfull life of ranting on the internet...

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

lol 25 is old fart? Man you're some kinda retarded ass immature kid, that's for sure. As for your accomplishments, I call bullsh*t. Hell you look like you're just an ignorant douche and act like one. Would be shocked if you actually knew how to tie your own shoes.

[Asker]

damn if your only 25... you act like my damn grandpa then yeah you old as hell.. so whatever you and your maturity and your mediocre job and life of tellin people that theyre immature and whatever the hell else idc you can have truth slap you in the face whether or not you believe it doesn't change the fact... thank you for this discussion

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

look, if you're lying about the cheating? You're immature for wasting our time cause you couldn't find something to do on your own. If you're telling the truth, you're still a douche. Every single sentence in this whole question you've posted has proven your immature douchebag behavior. You've only shown you're not worth spit. Enjoy.

[Asker]

"idk I'm stupid I really actually feel like a mega! asshole ='( " that makes me sounf like a douche? oh OK, and either way I apologized for wasting yalls time not my fault you kept freaking out and not beleiving me...

[Anonymous]

Porn isn't cheating anyway... But, if you had slept/made out/etc. with a girl on the cruise, that'd still be cheating (and it'd still matter).

[Opinion Owner]

Lol nevermind. Just re-read the question and yeah, that's totally cheating. And it matters. Good job.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm... I'd want you to tell me, it's only fair. But be prepared for a breakup.

[Asker]

='( but I don't want to break up it wouldn't be OK to just never do it again?

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

That, that exactly shows how selfish you are and shows, yes, you are an ass. You don't want to break up so you're going to lie and hide it? Horrible. You got to have sex with someone else, super, you don't deserve to be in a serious relationship if you can't be faithful or at least be honest

[Opinion Owner]

She deserves to know, and if you really feel as guilty about it as you say you do, you'd tell her. She is justified to your honesty on the subject so she can make the decision of whether or not she wants to be with you. It's not your decision to make- you messed it up. Don't be even more of an ass by not telling her.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't feel guilty at all. I hope that she leaves you soon, as you're a MASSIVE jerk.

[Opinion Owner]

Not cool dude, not at all cool :P

[Asker]

haha sorry I shouldntve done it I was just bored...

[Dom163]

yeah it counts... bwillant ...

[Dom163]

you are an asshole tell her

[Asker]

d*** head!

[Dom163]

;)

[tyt_2012]

That was not nice! Go shoot yourself. :)

[Phoenix1991]

aww that's not nice D=

[tyt_2012]

But he cheated on his girl which is not nice. =D

[tyt_2012]

Update: you sound like a jerk. :/

[Asker]

me you and eric have had great talks! I'm offended that you would even believe id do this!

[tyt_2012]

You wrote it, so I believed you. There was really no need to lie about this,

[Asker]

it was a joke.. if anybody understood that I thought it would be you ='(

[tyt_2012]

Aww, well next time you know not to joke about cheating on your girl because the girls on here will have yer guts for garters. =P

[Asker]

xounds like them and that emperor leo would chop off my d*** ha ha blah I miss her so much! sux I prob won't get to see her till Wednesday ='(

[KrissyTin888]

Yes, it does count as Cheating !

[Anonymous]

Grow up little boy.