I hade my first kiss and lost my v-card to this guy and he broke up shortly after?

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I am only 19, and he is 22. Recently started dating for a few weeks. Thought he was the one. Now I feel betrayed. He told me that he couldn’t see himself in a serious-relationship with me... so he broke up with me and asked to be friends. I told him that I would think about it and initiated no contact. Over the past few weeks I have thought about him, a lot. He’s was a lot more experienced than me, I just thought that “we” would work out. I kinda felt like he used me and I’m really hurting because of it. We only dated shy of 2 months, but it feels like we dated longer. Over those 2 months we went on about 10 dates... he didn’t spend a dime on me. After we had sex, we did it again, and again. After that, he slowly faded and I asked what was wrong only for him to reply “nothing. Everything is okay” then I asked if he still liked me and he replied with “I don’t think I can see myself in a serious relationship with you. I want a serious relationship I just don’t think it will work out. Don’t want to hurt you, so it’s better to tell you know”. Ouch. Well it hurt. Did he use me?
I hade my first kiss and lost my v-card to this guy and he broke up shortly after?
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