Uhhh... I know it's kinda late but... Protection? If you already considered leaving him then why without protection or a plan b or something? Anyways if he is that manipulative then make him pay child support or adopt the child as a last resort.
Have the baby and be the best mother you can be because the daddy can't and won't be a good father if he is as you say he is. You will have to be both Mom and Dad. I had to do it raising my two sons and I know you can do it too. After all you are super-mom right? You got this... ;) Just don't let him near you again... lol
Just get the abortion. You're right that it wouldn't be good to have the kid of your ex. You're not together, and you'd be raising two kids on your own. You have enough on your plate right now
He came inside you without your consent. Really. Even if he doesn’t cum inside you there is still a risk of pregnancy. Use contraception if you really don’t want to get pregnant. some people 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@hi_it_is_me123 No it’s not rape. She should’ve know that just because he ejaculated during sex that it isn’t rape. With sexual encounter there’s always a chance of pregnancy
@hi_it_is_me123 at no point in your question did you say you didn’t consent to sex. You didn’t want him to cum inside you but you can get pregnant without that. If you didn’t consent to sex it’s rape. If you did consent to sex and you got pregnant it’s stupidity
It does not matter whether you get pregnant or not. I dont give a f about this. I am just saying it is sexual assault to do sexual activities such as cuming inside her without consent
@hi_it_is_me123 It really isn't. To use a more accurate comparison, if I let a dude do me in the ass I wouldn't have a right to claim it's rape because I don't like it or because I get the injuries associated with that activity. All actions have a possible consequence. Drink too much and you might get drunk. Eat to much and it doesn't matter if you don't consent to getting fat, it'll probably happen.
Since you start with your "pro choice" stance, hey, it is your body and your right, correct? So what the hell are you asking us for? Be proud and kill the kid and move on.
"My ex came inside me without my consent" um not to be mean, but why not use a condom. That would have decreased the likelihood of you getting pregnant. You both decided to have protected sex so...
First of all there are ways to avoid having baby. You should have used them before intercourse. And second, just get an abortion. And third, stop making such stupid decisons.
First of why did you have sex with him again in the first place? second give the child up for adoption if you want? 3rd take a lot at your self and figure out why you went threw all of that. I hope your pregnancy goes well
True, and what a great person he must be if he did this on purpose to trap her. Just judging from how she describes him, he doesn't seem like dad material.
Well I can't say what to do because it your body. I must point out that its not teens and single women getting the most abortions. Turns out its women who have children that get pregnant again too soon after giving birth previously
Simple as that stop fucking your ex. I never understood who would want to just go fuck their ex. They are a ex for a reason. So go abort it if you can't handle the thought of having his kids.
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Uhhh... I know it's kinda late but... Protection? If you already considered leaving him then why without protection or a plan b or something?
Anyways if he is that manipulative then make him pay child support or adopt the child as a last resort.
Have the baby and be the best mother you can be because the daddy can't and won't be a good father if he is as you say he is. You will have to be both Mom and Dad. I had to do it raising my two sons and I know you can do it too. After all you are super-mom right? You got this... ;) Just don't let him near you again... lol
Just get the abortion. You're right that it wouldn't be good to have the kid of your ex. You're not together, and you'd be raising two kids on your own. You have enough on your plate right now
He came inside you without your consent. Really. Even if he doesn’t cum inside you there is still a risk of pregnancy. Use contraception if you really don’t want to get pregnant.
some people 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
So you are justifying what he did?
This is rape
@hi_it_is_me123 Only if you didn't consent to ANY of the sex. It's like saying I consent to shitting my pants but not to smelling bad.
@hi_it_is_me123 No it’s not rape. She should’ve know that just because he ejaculated during sex that it isn’t rape. With sexual encounter there’s always a chance of pregnancy
So it is not rape when your partner do sexual activities such as anal although you only consent to vagina sex
At least it is sexual assault
It is sexual assault
@hi_it_is_me123 at no point in your question did you say you didn’t consent to sex. You didn’t want him to cum inside you but you can get pregnant without that. If you didn’t consent to sex it’s rape. If you did consent to sex and you got pregnant it’s stupidity
I am not the asker. I am just against sexual assault lol
It does not matter whether you get pregnant or not. I dont give a f about this. I am just saying it is sexual assault to do sexual activities such as cuming inside her without consent
@hi_it_is_me123 It really isn't. To use a more accurate comparison, if I let a dude do me in the ass I wouldn't have a right to claim it's rape because I don't like it or because I get the injuries associated with that activity. All actions have a possible consequence. Drink too much and you might get drunk. Eat to much and it doesn't matter if you don't consent to getting fat, it'll probably happen.
Since you start with your "pro choice" stance, hey, it is your body and your right, correct? So what the hell are you asking us for? Be proud and kill the kid and move on.
"My ex came inside me without my consent" um not to be mean, but why not use a condom. That would have decreased the likelihood of you getting pregnant. You both decided to have protected sex so...
Unprotected *
First of all there are ways to avoid having baby. You should have used them before intercourse. And second, just get an abortion. And third, stop making such stupid decisons.
First of why did you have sex with him again in the first place? second give the child up for adoption if you want? 3rd take a lot at your self and figure out why you went threw all of that. I hope your pregnancy goes well
You fucked up. Ruling out abortion is just another fuck up.
If you didn’t want to get pregnant that’s your responsibility to ensure.
People like you should be infertile. Completely irresponsible and unfit to be a parent.
Whatever you do, don't stay with your ex. If you can't abort it, have it but away from that fucker. He will bring you more problems in the future.
You have three options only...
- Keep the baby
- Give the baby up got adoption
- Abortion
Those are your only options.
Or a fourth option:
Build a spacecraft and send it to Krypton.
4th give the baby to the Dad...
True, and what a great person he must be if he did this on purpose to trap her. Just judging from how she describes him, he doesn't seem like dad material.
Well I can't say what to do because it your body. I must point out that its not teens and single women getting the most abortions. Turns out its women who have children that get pregnant again too soon after giving birth previously
No wonder women like this are pro-choice.
And no wonder pro-choice women are always like this.
Go back to him and go couples counseling and sort your relationship out.
You could simple not put your ex on the birth cerifcate and then when you get into a long term relationship you could put his bame down
Umm if you dont want to raise his child then dont. I think you know what you want to do.
Simple as that stop fucking your ex. I never understood who would want to just go fuck their ex. They are a ex for a reason. So go abort it if you can't handle the thought of having his kids.
Force him to get couples counseling with you or tell him you will leave.
You should marry him and enjoy the pregnancy sex. At the very least you will get child support and alimony if you divorce.