My ex girlfriend wants to be with me again even after getting pregnant with another guy's baby?

[Anonymous]

About a couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend, she got another boyfriend (who is known for sleeping with a lot of women), slept with him, got pregnant, and broke up with with him. Now she wants to be my girlfriend again because she says she loves me and misses the time we spent with together. She said she'll wants me to father her baby. I love her too, but its extremely painful to her carrying some other guys baby and I don't want to be its father, why doesn't she understand that? What should I do?

[themastaplan]

you shouldn't do it...why? you're asking us for advice...if you REALLY loved her you would be with her regardless of the child...

HOWEVER I completely understand where you are coming from...she messed up, not you...she got pregnant and is now leaning back to you because youve always been there...shame on her for that...

i wouldn't be able to carry around and take care of my ex and new guys kid...if it was the other way around where she got pregnant and the guy was a douche and then she met you, it'd be a different situation...

this is hard, real hard and I feel for you...but right now with your uncertanty I think you need to move on, she's worried about her future and to be honest its her own fault...shes trying to make it yours as well

thats just how I feel...you deserve better...you guys broke up for a reason and she slept with some dude a month or 2 after...it didn't take her long at all to get over you...why invest more time when she's putting you on the back burner...

move on, I know its hard, but you'll get over it...distance yourself from her life and do you!

[arrgee]

nicely said :)

[Anonymous]

One word for you: NEXT

Do not believe her bs, she wants to use you. You set yourself up for a lot of sh*t you don't deserve. Don't be weak and give in to her. She will use you and dump you again when she finds someone else. Your call. But don't come and cry if you choose to take her back.

[redhead19]

it doesn't matter that she got pregnant so something happened when you guys split everyone has a baggage she is a mom now so if you want her she comes with a package of a child if you love her and want to be with her then do it understandable you don't want to be the father let her know that but if you get together with her you will be in the childs life too but garantee that if you truly love HER then you wouldn't mind being with her AND her CHILD I can't say that you should or shouldn't be with her because that's your decision but I can say to think about her and how she makes you feel and how it was when you guys were together that would make up your mind because if the pros are bigger than cons then you know you shud be together but if cons are bigger than pros then its not ment to be but don't let the thought of her having a baby get to you because its the most amazing thing ever to experience and when the baby is born then if you love her then you will love the baby because its apart of her. well I'm done writing my little book lol good luck :)

[dudeman]

There should be an idiot tag. U deserve it

[oohkittymeow]

I agree with themastaplan. It is kinda convienant that she wants to get back with you after she got pregnant by some other guy. Not just that, but if you are having doubts about the relationship, having a kid (regardless of whose it is) is only going to make things harder. If you are not looking for that and you are not the father, I would move on.

[indian_empress_91]

What do you want? and if you want her, is she worth it? ask yourself that first

[Billlewis]

I know this isn't going to be a popular viewpoint, but I think you should strongly consider getting back together with her, and not in spite of her having gotten pregnant, but because of it. Sure, that sounds ridiculous, but I honestly think you'll be glad you did later on.

[Billlewis]

Ask yourself this -- if you met her after she'd had her baby, would you still be interested in her? If so, then you should probably stay with her and help her raise her new baby. If you can handle this, you may be glad you did later on.

[Cptnjjim]

Dude! Why would you want to raise another guys kid?! Don't take her back and go find yourself another girl! Geezus I can't believe you even have to ask, she's used goods and therefore, worthless to you.

[thisGUYknows]

Fuck that mess. She's coming back because that guys an asshole. Don't be second place

[Dragan]

When I break-up with a girl that's for all time. One ex-girlfriend said she was pregnant with me. DNA analysis showed that the child is not mine.

[Anonymous]

you dumped her so I don't see the ulterior motives in this situation. if you love her be with her.

[lynneybugg]

tell her you'll be her boyfriend but not the father.

[PaulaJean]

Marry her. She still wants you even after she tried the guy that knocked her up. Face it, he had to be good but she still wants you.

[libidoboost]

don't do it. too complicated

[LordZero]

She just wants your money.

[aliiiek]

What did u do?