I’m pregnant and can’t get in contact with my ex?

[Anonymous]

I ended my relationship with my ex two weeks ago because I felt like he was too friendly with his ex when I tried to have a conversation with him about this he blew up at me and didn’t want to listen to what I had to say after I told him I no longer wanted to be in a relationship. He blocked my number. A week after he blocked my number I wasn’t feeling good so I took a pregnancy test and the test was positive. I tried to contact him I text his number but someone responded and said I had the wrong number and they just got his number two days ago. I don’t know how to contact him and I don’t want to just pop up at his house. Should I wait to see if he will reach out to me eventually. I really don’t want to be a single parent and I don’t know if I should just get an abortion and change my number and move on or should I wait for him to, get back in contact with me so we can have a conversation and figure out what I should do he changed his number in the past and after a month contacted me

[Skinhead-1979]

I am really sorry about the very complicated situation you got yourself into.

Because I feel it is important that your ex knows you are pregnant... regardless of what you are planning to do with the pregnancy... you have to tell him by all means possible. If that means going to his house, and he will get angry because you do so, tough luck. He needs to know.

No one wants to think about an abortion; but you will have to make some very difficult decisions. Of course would your ex be willing to be a part of the child's life things will be easier... but the sad thing is that you cannot force him. It would be morally wrong of him to abandoned the child, but he did not aim for a pregnancy. If he refuses to be a part of the child's life, and/ or for whatever the reason you feel you are not in the right place to be a [single-]parent, abortion, despite any possible moral or religious objections, should be seriously considered.

[Serkee]

Using abortion as birth control is despicable. All these women encouraging it should be ashamed.

[DishLady]

A very close friend has the same exact issue. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'll keep you in my prayers and would like to say... stop trying to find him.

[Kelley1]

Get an abortion. Already you failed to have a good relationship, and being pregnant will only make the problems worse.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of ex-relationships while carrying the news of a new life can be incredibly daunting, but fear not, I've got some advice wrapped in empathy and a sprinkle of cheekiness for you. Firstly, it's crucial to prioritize your well-being and that of your potential future mini-me. This isn't just about rekindling or untangling the past with your ex; it's about preparing for the future. Given the sensitivity of your situation, it might be worth exploring other means to reach out, perhaps through mutual friends or even directly, but in a non-intrusive manner, despite your reservations against showing up at his door.

Now, onto the heart-tugging dilemma of single parenthood vs. the alternate routes you're considering. It's understandable to feel overwhelmed, but remember, decisions made in haste, especially those as monumental as this one, often leave us with regrets heavier than a California king-sized mattress. Take a moment, a deep breath, or a hundred if need be, to ponder what you truly desire and what's best for you and the baby.

In the meantime, reaching out to a support system, whether it's family, friends, or professional counseling, could provide you with the clarity and strength you need. Remember, you're not alone, even when it feels like you're treading water. Life has a funny way of teaching us how to swim during the stormiest of weathers. Keep your chin up, darling, and navigate these waters with the courage I know you've got!

[Anonymous]

No... pop up at his house. Why did you keep the baby?@! My god

[Agape93]

Get an abortion