My boyfriend was pantsed and I saw how small his thing was. How do I break up with him?

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I'm 16, and have a boyfriend of the same age, we've been dating for about a month now without doing anything sexual. A few days ago we were hanging out with his friends at the beach, and his friends pantsed him (pulled down his trunks) and I saw his dick. I was really disappointed at the size of it, and if I had to guess I would say it was about an inch. I don't know how big they are supposed to be at our age, but I didn't want anything to do with him after I saw how small it was. How should I bring this up to him so that I can break up with him?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you so desperately wanna break up with him, don´t make it a size thing. That would break him completely. So I´d rather say, tell him you lost interest in him and you don´t know if you´re interests are mutual.
And show everyone that you´re just a size queen. Guys that are born with a small dick are many times not just all about their dick in bed. He might not have a big dick but he could be a considerate and loving person. Don´t forget that.

Pete671 · Accepted Answer

Keep him on as a back-up boyfriend, say you love him but his dick is too small to be full-time,,,

This will help him accept his situation, otherwise he'll be wondering what he did wrong, not good to skirt round the issue, it would be confusing imho,,,

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Race? Grower or a shower? In cold water, my junk is that small, but I have a good 7 inches when I have a boner.

People that are made for cold weather shrink in the cold...

This should give you a mental image...5'10" with a 7" boner

Here is my suggestion to you... get him horny and have him send you some dick pics while he is aroused. If he doesn't have a permanent midget dick he'll be glad to send you some pics... especially if you show him a titty or something.

But give the guy a break... he was in water even. Genetics plays a part in if you shrink a lot or not in the cold. Just saying.

In the coldest of weather, a person might lose some fingers, toes, maybe ears or nose... but as long as your dick shrinks back into your body, you won't lose that at least.

Sanser · Answer

Tell him the truth and it's not about the size, it's about you don't like him, if you really love him you wouldn't say his size is a problem, there are many ways to enjoy sex and if it's a deal breaker just tell him that you do not love him which is the truth. I don't know if that was the actual size (Maybe he was in the cold water swimming which makes it shrink) and I can understand that if he really has a micropenis problem it can be very disappointing but the truth is that size is a factor decisive. it's because you don't love him

Anonymous · Answer

I certainly hope this is a joke and you wouldn't break up with him because of that.

Now if you were at the beach, if he just got out of the water, it is going to be small. That stuff down there contracts when in the cool water.

But regardless of whether or not he was in the water, he just might be a grower and not a shower.

But again, I hope you are kidding and you're not going to break up with a guy over this. LOL

Cripplingkingship · Answer

I think all the girls on claiming you are a bitch for this, would do the exactly the same thing, if there man dick was too small. Hypocrites.

Listening here, you saw him in limp mode, a limp dick is actually a lot smaller. My suggestion, trying to seeing when its hard.

By the way, he probably does need to be bigger than 4inches, because a womens vagina is 3.6inches deep.

If he is 4inches or bigger when erected, you should be happy.

28ouc · Answer

you are too young to be worrying about penis size and expecially if you have not even had sex before. just enjoy yourself and have fun. you have a lot to experience and learn in life yet. you are probly uncertain what you would or wound'nt even like yet until you try. it is possible he could be just perfect for you!

J9inva · Answer

Ok now that is really stupid. Have you ever heard of shrinkage? If a dick is 6 inches hard it would be considerably smaller when flaccid. Throw in cold water and it’s even smaller. Go outside and have a snow ball fight in the winter and it’s even smaller, or inverted.

JackSmy · Answer

LOL!! silly girl!! 20 years from now, when he is CEO of some SUPER-HUGE company, worth a Billion dollars, you will kick yourself, for being such a judgmental person now!!

hyperben · Answer

he is probably about 6" hard, flaccid size isn't really a good indicator of erect size.

if you break up with him just be decent about it and remember, anything nasty you say to him might come back to hurt you in the end

gbeary89 · Answer

If that's the only reason you want to break up with him I suggest you do it. You are right it will destroy him if u say that. If he thought your 😺 was ugly would you want him to leave because he deserves better? @Most secure females seem to prefer good head over amazing dick as the go to "O".

Overmind · Answer

You do know that a man has to be aroused? Cold water will shrivel that thing up pronto. You can't tell how "big" it is until he's turned on.

Fireguy17 · Answer

he might be a grower, not a shower, or that just might be all he has.
Could be shrinkage due to the circumstances.
Just grab it and start playing with it and see what happens, you might be surprised, or still be disappointed.

Miah05 · Answer

Just tell him you aren't ready for a relationship, and need to work on you. Don't mention his pp size. They get sensitive about that.

TommyGun21 · Answer

Based on your boyfriend's reaction, was his facial expression, "Oh fuck! We haven't got past 1st base yet and she sees me totally nude and learns I have a small penis. Fuck!" How did he recover from that? I mean, pranks of this kind happen all the time, but this one resulted in his being put on display for you, AND your having to deal with the humiliation of your girlfriends getting to learn you're going out with a boyfriend who is small hung. Wow.

code_999 · Answer

Sorry but that is not a start idea. First off you do not know how big it is. Most people are uneducated when it comes to size. You do not have sex when it is flaccid so my question is did you get him hard? You do not know the actual size until you so that. He could be 8 inch hard. There is a saying "he is a grower not a shower".

Sour-rose · Answer

Ha... shallow but whateva' ain't my life. Just make it quick and don't give a reason. Don't need a reason, you just wanna dip. that's it.

MemeSupreme · Answer

if this isn't some troll post, then i'd just tell him a lie because that would be very shitty if you told him the truth

Shamalien · Answer

A flaccid dick literally tells you nothing about the hard dick. Dicks can shrink tiny and get huge. It’s called shrinkage and it happens when it’s cold

Anonymous · Answer

You do know that you can't tell how big a guy's dick actually is when it's limp, right?

Anonymous · Answer

I understand that you're born to be a bitch. so leave him

Sdexam · Answer

Ok. So the size of a guys penis when he is walking around in the world and the size of guys penis when he is fully erect aren't really related. For example, my penis gets like 10x bigger when it's hard. Never heard of a grower?

Juxtapose · Answer

lol shallow, stupid teenagers. You can be hung as fuck but still look small when flacid.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

He deserves better than you.

zagor · Answer

Shrinkage... in cold water a penis retracts like a turtles head.

anylolone · Answer

Tell him the truth. Understand what it means for you.

Raycer · Answer

I broke up with my girlfriend because her tits were too small, I realized after awhile her tiny ones did nothing for me.

Username2100 · Answer

If your dicc is 1 inch at any point in time you have a tiny little boys dicc. Period.

Romanjdjdjd · Answer

Bitch you cannot say it is small untill it's erected

neeeeeeeko · Answer

Just sat you don't like him and move on

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Ah, size queen. And you're 16, figures

NaughtyScotty · Answer

Give him a chance, he might surprise you

Anonymous · Answer

have you had sex yet?

dangor2 · Answer

Shallow..

My boyfriend was pantsed and I saw how small his thing was. How do I break up with him?

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