I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me.. I have screenshots of his conversation! what’s the best way to approach this to let him know I know?

By kicking his ass to the curb would be a good start. Do you really think you don't deserve better? You know the old phrase - cheat on me once you're the fool, but if I forgive you and you cheat again, I'm the fool. Don't be a fool and give him the chance to make you one.
I would first first ask him if he has been unfaithful, because 'you had a feeling', I'd at least give him a chance to come clean, but if he doesn't, I'll send it to everyone
Lol I was thinking this.. but in his message to the girl he told her he doesn’t have a girlfriend LOL. Don’t even feel like giving him a chance to come clean after I seen that
I'd do it just to see if he would lie to me or not, cause this is going to be the last moment anyway.
You should also contact that girl and tell him you're the girlfriend, revenge together
I would just dump his ass and go "screw this I'm outta here".
Look, I know that you like him, so it's difficult to suddenly pretend you don't and break up with him so easily, but that's EVEN more reason to not see his face again, then you forget the guy fast.
Yeah exactly
What is your intention? To break up or to give him a chance to repent?
No chances for him this time!
I agree with that approach. Since your decision is already made, what point is served by confronting him with the evidence? Is there anything he can say that will change your mind? Unlikely, right? So why have a discussion that doesn't change your decision. Just tell him "I know you cheated on me, I don't care if you deny it because I have proof, there is nothing you can say that will change my decision. I'm gonna get my stuff and go, then I'm gonna block you on my phone and all social media. Don't even think about trying to call me to ask for a second chance because that's never going to happen. You've fucked up and you can't unfuck the harm you've caused. I'm sorry I met you and I hope you grow up and don't keep hurting other women like this. Return to Hell, demon!"
Then you get your stuff and leave, and you block him on your phone and all social media. Go home, have a few margaritas, spend some time thinking about what happened, whether there were warning signs you overlooked, if you made obvious mistakes in selecting him as a partner. Learn whatever lessons you can learn, then move forward.
This was amazing advice, thank you. 😊
Good luck!
Thanks for MHO!
Hope it went well for you.
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By breaking up with him. Show him the screen shots and say bye-bye and start dating other guys.
Go no contact with him and let him become part of your past.
Should I block him from all social media? 🧐
Yes. That is part of the no contact.
PS - if the girl he is cheating with is also in a relationship you may send her the screen shots so she knows the truth too. Hell, depending on how close you, him, family & friends are... you can send those to those people as well so everyone knows 100% why you broke up... he is a cheater.
Expose everything to the cleansing LIGHT... let nothing remain hidden and spinnable by him.
Let the truth be boldly declared.
Agreed!
Send those screenshots to mutual friends and his family, and finally to him. Ruin his social circles for a while.
Asking to talk to him asking him about the thing if he denies it ahow him the screen shot
You can post them on instagram with title “cheater!”. Jest kidding, don’t do that. Talk to people
Just bid him goodbye and never see him again.
Just come out an tell him.
If she's cheating on you, let her go.(
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