My boyfriend has a best friend woman that calls and texts him and vice versa. This has went on for 10 months and has been one cause with our four break ups we have went through. The third broke we got back together I sent her a message … a nice message saying that I would like her to respect our relationship and back off … that he has a girlfriend and it’s inappropriate for this calling when she is bored or checking up on him stuff. That’s my job to check up on him. Or to call about a question on what I should buy. So after I sent her the message saying how I felt about it all … she got mad sending him the message I sent her and my boyfriend flipped out and started yelling at me saying that’s not my place. Worried about loosing her from it. So we broke up and then got back together a week later 😒and I asked him nicely if he would please send her a text saying that our relationship will be respected and I will come first and the contact should vanish. He replies saying ok , good luck … 6 days went by and she must of got mad that my boyfriend has not called her or messaged her and she deleted him off fb. Now he is all upset saying I caused him in loosing his best friend. I didn’t cause that. I feel like she is valued more over me and what I want. I feel like she knows him and dis that up set him so he would reach out 2 her. She is mad that we got back together because he told her he wouldn’t with me after our third break up. I do not feel important to his life. He is so worried about loosing her and not so much us. Red flag?
Girls, Do you see why I am hurt?
