Share your "classiest" and "most bitter" breakup / separation / divorce experiences?

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DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

#1 He slept with my bestie and possibly was the father of the child she miscarried. I punched him in the dick and he fell in the middle of traffic. I wanted to let him get hit by the cars but im too nice so i dragged him by his leg out of the way of traffic.
#2 He ghosted because he apparently got some girl pregnant. Then when he reached back out 3 months later claiming he couldnt afford him phone bill, i ignored his call/texts and blocked him.
#3 He started giving gay vibes so i left him for someone else
#4 He turned out to be a former pornhub pornstar so i deaded that shit.
#5 I cussed the mf out for wasting my time and told him he was blocked and to never speak to me again. But was actually shocked to never hear from him again since i only blocked him for a day lmao.
#6 He told me he’d be tempted to rape me if i didn't give him sex sooner. Then he got with an underage girl and we both confronted him and she reported him to the cops. He reached back out later and i ignored him.
#7 He started giving off gay vibes and psycho vibes and wanted to kill someone to help his mom pay rent.
#8 He changed his mind about giving us a go so i got back with an ex instead.
#9 He called me out my name so i snapped back.
#10 He kept standing me up and instarted getting incestual vibes from him.
#11 He told me i needed to stick to traditional housewife shit and that if he wants me to be his maid, I’ll be his maid. So we went at it.
#12 He wanted me to wait around to see if he’s reconnect with his ex. Like tf
#13 His parents were racist af and wouldn't allow him to keep talking to me.
#14 He was clingy af and suffering from depression. He kept asking where i was all the time and if i still loved him. He wanted to move in together in less than a month
#15 I lost attraction to him and just told him i wasn't ready for a relationship as a kind way to break up. He then moved out of the country since i was his only reason to stay
#16 He went crazy on me for having a celebrity crush and was mad jealous so i ghosted his psycho ass
#17 He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He wanted to pursue me but keep his “best friend” as his friends with benefits. Hell nawl. He ghosted after we both confronted him.
#18 I just wasn't attracted to him and til this day he still doesn't accept that and still tries to make a move
#19 I fell for someone else while he was away in the military.
#20 That someone else i fell for was no longer ready and i just feel like it was a stunt to kill the competition.
#21 He gave gay vibes and then ghosted when i questioned his accent and actions changing
#22 He was a mamas boy and only did what she wanted. So i told him about himself.
#23 He was so sweet. But he was too clingy. I like clingy but he was scary clingy so i ghosted.
#24 He was like a hippie weirdo. I don't know injust got tired of him and ghosted.
#25 He was scary clingy and always asking why i wouldn’t answer his calls/texts quick enough. Then he also turned out to be an ex porn star. So i ghosted.
#26 I don't know why he ghosted but probably because i was honest enough to tell him that i liked someone else too.
#27 He always put useless shit before what we had so I was gonna ghost but he eventually did it first so fair game 🤷‍♀️

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Classiest:
Even though my first husband was very jealous, controlling, and physically abusive.. Once got away from that, no grudges held, we stayed cordial, and when my first daughter from second hubby was born very premature, it was my ex that made sure I had a way to go see her in hospital and actually came to the hospital the day after she was born... And even though it was almost twenty years since we'd been divorced, I attended his Dad's wake when he passed to pay my respects...
Most bitter: wasn't a "break up" break up but a parting with someone that started as friends but became sexual in nature... When couldn't take the lies, multiple females he was playing/lying to.. Still tried ending things respectfully, cuz that's the way I am.. "he" and his narcissistic self would try to convince me it's me, I'm crazy, blah blah and also lied about me and the situation both to people we knew and to people online..

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Too fresh now and I'm trying to let those memories fade.

exitseven · Answer

I had a long term relationship, most of it was long distance. I felt like she was not putting any effort into the relationship so I decided to stop writing to her and see what she would do. 5 months go by and I do not hear anything. I decide that I wanted to get on with my life so I called her late one Saturday night and broke up with her over the phone. She had no idea that anything was wrong and she did not even make much of a fuss about it. So I guess that was the classiest.
Part2 goes like this. I dated this girl for about 5 or 6 months. I really was in love with her too. So the weekend after Thanksgiving she tells me she had a lot of school work to do and couldn't go out with me. So I tell her I would be going to a bar in the town she lived in with one of my friends from college that lived there too. I told her I was going to probably just have a few beers and watch the hockey game on TV.
So I go to the bar and sit down. I look around the room and I see my girlfriend sitting at a table with her old boyfriend from high school. They are holding hands and having a nice time together. I was totally blindsided. I didn't know what to do so I got up and left. She looked right at me as I walked out. I expected her to follow me outside to explain or apologize or something, but she did not. In the days that followed she never tried to contact me. A few months later we ended up at the same party and she came over to me and tried to hug me like everything was okay. I put my elbow up and just said "don't".

DonkeyDan · Answer

Classy as in civilised was actually my divorce, it was very mutual and adult.
Most bitter I'm not sure, I've always tried to end things in a civilised manor. The only time that springs to mind would be a woman I'd been seeing for about 6 months, and it was just so boring. I told her that I really didn't see us going any further and I'd been patient with her moods and lack of interest in doing things, but it was time for me to move on, she did not take it well and went in to a bit of a rage. Which to be fair was the most emotion I'd seen out of her for the entire 6 months.

BCA6010 · Answer

Classiest we talked like adults and mutually agreed that we would be better off going separate ways. We stayed friends for a while but over the course of about six months we gradually dropped out of contact completely.

Most bitter was the woman I was with when I went to basic training. I graduated OSUT and had planned out a proposal for marriage only to find out she had been running off with a guy no later than about a week after I had left for Georgia. When I confronted her, she played a bizarre apologetic victim card when all I really wanted to know was why she couldn't have just broken up with me formally or even say if something was wrong instead of trying to hide it and play emotions. She really turned out to not be the person I thought she was and in hindsight I dodged a bullet.

Anon621 · Answer

Classiest: pffft my history of breakups is anything but classy. There's probably only one time I can recall when I was dating someone and I left them on "classy" terms but we still don't talk anymore. Honestly I wouldn't even call it that classy but at least I wasn't rude unlike other relationships
Most bitter: this is quite hard to determine determine me. I'd have to say my third girlfriend in high school (I dated three girls at separate times my crazy butt). I'll call her Nickette for this story cause why not. So me and Nickette dated for 2 months and then broke up. Nickette wanted to be friends with me afterwards. That "friendship" was more toxic than a nuclear reactor to put it lightly. We basically cursed each other out and butted heads constantly until we just decided to stop talking and honestly I can't blame her we were both headstrong people at the time

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Classiest? I can think of two that were class. Both were LDRs, and we realized that it was doomed to fail, and we finally faced the facts. I still have a lot of respect for both of those women, even if they're now raising someone else's kids.

That's class. Maybe a third was my high school prom date. Her mom decided that it was safer for me to get lost, because her daughter couldn't stay out of trouble. I called her up, and she accepted that it was the price she had to pay for running around with a bad crowd.

Those were class. Most of the rest were ass. And there's so many of them, and they were so horrible, I'd rather not list every detail. I could write a book on crazy dates and crushes. And some desperate Joe in Hollywood might even wanna turn it into a movie. I seem to attract mentally unstable women for some reason. And occasionally fall for them back. I've gotten better about guarding myself, as it's not healthy to get too attached to someone like that.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Twice I've been dating someone and while we both had fun together, we knew it wasn't working on another level. We decided to break it off, but have one last weekend fling together. Both weekends were pretty amazing. We had a great time together and parted as great friends with fond memories.

NathanDavis · Answer

thanks for the invite to this question but there's no much to say for me here... all four of my relationships ended well, in mutual agreement, no dramas... we just did what had to be done and for the best, for both...

TrueConfection · Answer

Yikes. My exboyfriend and I sort of mutually split up. I wanted to get married and he didn't. A little over a year later, I met my now husband of 20 years. I hope that's where my story ends.

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

Hm,
Classy, I am not certain any of it was. I was either abused for the perceived lack of interest (and then dumped) or, when it was flings, we simply drifted apart.

Some severe trying to use me to assign their guilt and claim I was the bad guy also happened, but my fosterparents, very nasty greedy people who always wanted to profit off of me/treated me as their slave, were/still are behind it.

Ukrainianbuddafly · Answer

Most of the time I either don't care or cry a little bit and talk crap. I can't say I've actually done anything too crazy. I've thought about it though!

Starwitch23 · Answer

1. I was ghosted by my ex and I felt I was the only one who was in relationship. Now, he's happily married with someone else.
2. I was cheated on by my ex. He impregnated the other girl and now they are married.

menina · Answer

I have nothing to share. I've never been married nor in a relationship. So I know nothing about breakups. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Moimaris · Answer

My engagement was called of. Was a low point in my life where I felt the deepest loneliness and rejection ever

Likes2drive · Answer

Child support payments makes divorce expensive even if they cheat on you the courts don’t care, almost had to pay alimony too

Browneye57 · Answer

My first marriage ended in divorce. It cost me right around a half-million dollars. People ask why divorce is so costly, and the answer is BECAUSE IT'S WORTH IT.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Well I don’t know how I got invited to this but I was with someone I thought I was in a relationship with but they were in a relationship with me pretty recent yay

serious · Answer

Never had any such experiences. I have always been single.

Anonymous · Answer

I called an ex-girl one day pretending I was this other guy and she told me that she was planning to break up with me and then I ended the relationship but she also did things to me like losing my class-ring

FunkyMonkee · Answer

The most bitter was the last one. After 10 years of my loyalty to her, she started cheating on me!!

scott04sa22 · Answer

They always go to someone else then staying with me

Anonymous · Answer

Your post are always so negative

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