Cheaters. Divorce. Confusion?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so he had an affair, kicked him out. He moved in with her. We tried again and he left got her again. Now every chance I have I treat him like crap through text. Why does he keep reaching out? Why does he hope I change, if he's in a happy relationship?

[K-I-S-S]

Your mistake was to trust a known cheater.

Cheaters are complete shits. Nobody normal should waste any time with them, even if they cheated in the past and not on you.

It takes a certain type of person to fuck over a person they "love".

Personalities never change, they can be supresses in some rare cases but why even take that risk, plenty of decent people out there.

[boggboss]

Because he believes your weak enough to take him back clearly he wants to pick and choose between you two and because u entertain him

[Asker]

We don't sleep together because I refuse to be his sneaky link when I was the 1st. I don't send nudes. He says he doesn't know if he wants to try again. I'm dumb and to trusting. It makes it hard to understand why he's still entertaining me while he's with her

[boggboss]

He is not entertaining you he is playing you and because he knows you are trusting it's worth a go in his mind

[SnakeBoop]

just block and move on. its keeping you in a yo yo situation

[Fireguy17]

Just move on, life is too short, you deserve to be treated better.