Urgent consultation?

[ahmed55999]

Now, my love, wants to separate from me, or she has already separated in her treatment with me because she thinks that she will finish university and she is supposed to see her life, and that she and I will not be able to get married because her family is impossible to agree to marry someone who is not from her country, and therefore she suggests that you are supposed to see her life and other people, we know each other for a year and I am broken I am desperate. I love her very, very, very, very much. I can't see anyone else, and I don't want another
What is ur opinion
is she’s right?

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever met her in person?

[ahmed55999]

No, but what make u to ask like this question?

[OlderAndWiser]

i had a suspicion that this is an online relationship. If you are desperately in love with someone who you have never met, then you are most likely simply desperate to be in love and she is the one who is most available at the moment. Are you feeling that you will never meet anyone else who can be a partner for you?

[ahmed55999]

Yes it’s an online relationship. but the most strange thing is many girls talks to me And I do not want to talk to them. I do not have the energy for them. I do not want to talk to them. I mean, during this period, 3 girls are calling me, and some of them send me more than 50 messages. Today, I am cold to them, and there are some of them that I met. However, I feel that I have no energy for them or I want to talk to someone other than what I want

[OlderAndWiser]

She does not have much of an investment in a relationship with you and her family would be opposed to this so what do you think is the most likely outcome?

[ahmed55999]

I don't know but is she right in what she did in broken up or it’s selfish from her just thinking in herself
Does she love me and can go away like this without any sacrifices

[OlderAndWiser]

I doubt that she loves you, but she may feel some affection for you. Apparently, you are not in a relationship where you have made promises to each other and she must do what is best for her. Would you want her to stay with you eveen if that made her feel miserable?

[ahmed55999]

Ofcurse I don’t want her feel miserable but in same time want her to say that she doesn’t love me

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you asked her?

[ahmed55999]

Yes and she says she loves me but what is the end

[OlderAndWiser]

I suspect that she is not being honest with you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

[ahmed55999]

And how can i get her to be honest? and why she from beginning said that she loves me

[OlderAndWiser]

You can't make her be honest with you. All you can do is accet the inevitable, learn some lessons from this experience, and then move forward.