Will you get back to someone who left you for 2.5 years?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend who I loved a lot broke up with me in q very cruel way two and half years ago, at that time I begged him not to leave me and called him many times but he didn't pick up, and finally told me that he doesn't want drama and that we are done. For 2.5 years he never asked about me or got in touch, then suddenly he texted me and wanting us back saying he misses me... how would you feel? I suffered a lot when he left me and now this!!!

[s10sleeper]

One big thing to remember is all people make mistakes. He truly may regret it. However, he must own up to those mistakes, and should prove that he’s changed. He should acknowledge he hurt you.

I understand some of where you’re coming from, I was just broken up with after 4 years together, and still hurting every day. I had spent the last 4 months of the relationship working very hard, trying to get everything ready because I was going to ask her to marry me. I’m going through the most painful time of my life.

One thing I do know is that I’d be willing to try working things out with her, if she sincerely regrets it.

it’s going to be a matter of if you trust him, forgive him, and don’t hold any resentment, otherwise it’s bound for failure

[Asker]

I am sorry that you are going through pain, I know how it feels it hurts a lot and it takes time. I understand people make mistakes and want to come back but there is a limit to it as in ok if someone comes back after 2 3 months even 6 months, it could work. But my boyfriend for example came back after two and half years. Which is too late I had already met someone. So it depends on how long it takes them to realize what they lost

[s10sleeper]

Good point, that’s a good boundary to set. If he’s coming back right when he found out you met someone else, he’s probably finally realizing he’s lost you and can’t just get you back by asking. There’s his mistake there, he thought he could keep you as backup and you moved on, good work

[Wise4myage]

Do you really think he deserves a second chance?

I bet he's just horny.

[Anonymous]

he's lying. block and delete and continue living your life as you were.

[slatyb]

Don’t do it. It will end the same.

[mark000h]

I would tell him to f off.

[jahaims]

No way

[In_Trance]

Nope