When your ex left you for someone else and comes back for a chance?

[Anonymous]

Of friendship... Or friends with benefits.. Or whatever he can get.. Why is he doing this now when he left me for someone else in the first place? Bc she left him. or he's done with her? He wants to start with good vibes and not analyse things but go with the flow... Your thoughts, what does he really want and why now? When he left me after 3 months of break up.

[Darion_K]

This happen to me with 2 of my Exs. They cheated on me, we broke up, after some months, they come knocking my door and try to act all buddy buddy with me, trying to like "hey! We are friends".

I will say, do what I do, just say no thanks. Why you ask? Because, to be friends, you have to trust your friend and if they cheated on you, then there is no trust as either Ex or Friend.

[Asker]

Exactly.. I feel i mayb his side dish... N sometimes i wanna believe... I hope im not

[noraaenots]

Friends, but don't allow anything else. Sounds like a player

[Asker]

I feel im his side dish until he finds a real deal

[noraaenots]

Cut yourself from him then.
Know Your Worth.

[Asker]

Could the feeling b wrong

[noraaenots]

What is it you want?

[Asker]

Well i do miss him... He can b nice... But he wants treats first for loss time...

[noraaenots]

My opinion?
"Treats for lost time" is the biggest load of shit I've ever heard.
You're better without him. Be single for a while and be you.

[Tyberius]

Sounds like he went to his backup plan.

[Asker]

Im his backup?

[Tyberius]

Sadly that is usually the case. Not 100% guaranteed, but likely north of 90%.

[Asker]

Thnx

[Tyberius]

Sorry