What should I do if my boyfriend will kill himself if I break up with him? (Page 2)
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If you really want to break up and he has made threats of hurting himself, call the police explain that he is a threat to himself. They will pick him up and take him for an evaluation. In my state they will keep people at least three days for evaluation. Take that opportunity the pack and leave. Don't look back at what you had move on. If you try to stay in touch with him you'll keep yourself trapped. Good luck
For starters if they say they will kill themselves they are not going to do it.
Anyone who is suicidal will not announce it. Will not say anything about it.
What he did was manipulation and its a huge red flag. If you suspect he might actually do it, call the authorities for his safety and well being.
He won't. It's just a tactic me and women pull because they're afraid to be by themselves. One of my exes tried to pull this on me but I left anyway and she's still around. People just gotta stop playing the victim and realize that being alone is an extremely freeing and independent thing
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You should BREAK UP with the bastard.
As cruel as it sounds, if he kills himself... that's HIS CHOICE, not yours. He's trying to manipulate you and throw a tantrum. You shouldn't stay with someone to keep him happy at the expense of your own happiness. It's stupid and a waste of time.
Let him eat his words. Break up. See if he's stupid but man enough to stick to his word.
Break up with him, if he does that. It is not your choice, you cannot control what he does.
He is trying to manipulate you into staying, don't let him control your life. He sounds abusive and you need to get out before it gets worse.
If you think he is serious, you need to help him to help himself. That's not something you need hanging over your hear and it's also something you should trust and respect. Get help for him and yourself!
Don't let it affect your decision. He is responsible for his own actions. If anything you send him to a therapist. You shouldn't date mentally weak people.
If any dude ever says such stupid thing, leave them immediately. Change your phone number and if possible move to a different city right away. That individual is both sick and mentally retarded to be saying such stupid things out loud.
A real man would do what they decide to do without making a fuzz or show of it.
It's always the wimps that cry wolf
Leave his ass he's a narcissist call his parents on your way out tell them your done and that their son is suicidal, record him saying it for undeniable proof.
That is a classic response from an abuser. His actions are not your responsibility. Get the hell out ASAP. He won't commit suicide. Has he ever physically threatened you or worse assaulted you?
You are not responsible for his actions. You can contact his parents and rely what he said and let them take responsibility for taking care of him. It is cruel to use that threat against you. No wise person wants to be in a relationship where it is one sided. He may need some mental health support. My best advice would be to get clear of a man that would manipulate you like that and find a more mature and healthy man.
Then his life will be over. Itâs either heâll kill himself or send you on the edge of killing yourself because he has you in a toxic relationship.
You should take a revolver and put it in front of him and say " OK, do it". Lol
Regardless of how he is feeling this I'd no way to act. Obviously I'm just joking about giving him a gun and daring him. But you can't put your life on pause because someone might hurt themselves. If you really believe he might get in touch with suicide prevention. But most likely he's manipulating you. Don't give in. You're not helping either of you if you do.
Stay with him and be anything he doesnât like. You can read the âanti seducers typesâ in the book âThe art of seductionâ for ideas.
He will break up with you or not care if you break up.
Damn thats rude but better nip it in the bud since the dude is obviously disturbed you dont want a future with someone like that. Try not to be in another relationship right away dudes like that go crazy and might hurt you or your new boyfriend.
He needs help. You can't stay just so he doesn't follow through. Most aren't serious about it and if he is, he's manipulating you and doesn't really love you. This is abusive.
well i dont really know anything about your relationship , like if u were abusive or anything. u haven't given us any details, like surely there must be a reason for him to say that
Itâs called emotional manipulation and nobody, Iâll repeat nobody has right to emotionally abuse you.
Go to the therapist and they might find a way to help you brake up.
I doubt he will kill himself, just stop taking high amounts of money off of guys if that is true and again I only believe half what I see on this internet
He's trying to manipulate you. His reaction to the breakup is not in you.
Leave him, as simple as that.
*not on you