My boyfriend is depressed and want to die. what to do?

[Anonymous]

Before one month, few guys tried to rape me, I called my boyfriend and he came to my help, he is a strong fighter who knows few martial arts , and he knocked them out, but one guy pulled a gun and shot him in the back. my boyfriend became completely paralyzed.
he has no parents , no family, only me and he worked , made food by himself, shopping by himself cleaning the house, training in gym , train in few martial arts, , he was completely independent and now he can't even shower himself,

he can only talk… and he became very depressed , he seems very sad, and he feel shamed that he needs me to get a shower…. He keep telling me that if he could move he was going to suicide and because he can't its my duty to finish him off. He asked me to hug him tightly andhe wanted to his head to be on my chest and then he told me how I can kill him instantly from this posture by breaking his neck…

what can I do, how can I make him want to live?

[Lliam]

What happened to him is a nightmare. I'm so sorry.
One good thing is, he has you.

He's not thinking clearly if he wants you to go to prison for homicide.

He needs professional help from a psychiatrist.
It's also possible for him to recover some mobility with advancements in medicine and therapy.

[Asker]

He dont want me to go to jail he said that we need to think of a way to dispose of his corpse so nobody will find out…
And he doesn't want psychiatrist who will dumb his mind of medicine. He knows his situation and want to die.

[Lliam]

Don't even contemplate homicide. DM me.

[Asker]

We thought about going ti a country in which medical suicide is allowed…

[Lliam]

They have it in Canada.

[ShesRad80]

he needs a psychiatrist. he is dealing with major trauma , nothing you can do but be supportive like you are and get him the help he needs

[Sasha0426]

He needs major help ASAP. You need to call the Suicide Hotline stat.

[Sasha0426]

Or at least take him to therapy.

[Asker]

He thinks staight he always told me that the weak should die and now he is the weak so he supoosed to die. he told me that biology dictates us and in the end, I am only 23 and I will find other guys to have sex who are healthy and why do I need him? When I can go anytime and find other healthy guy who can satisfy me. I tried to show him it doesn’t matter and I like him the same. I can’t really think of other dudes and I told him that I will be loyal to him and sex is the last thing I think.
He told me to not be stupid and I am only 23 , and I have urges and he can't satisfy them anymore. I give him handjob and blowjob every few days and I put his dick in me and have sex, and try to encourage him that we still can have fun in bed. But he calls it a corpse sex, and it only satisfy him but , I don’t really get satisfied by controlling a dick of a corpse…
I didn't answer it because the ugly truth is that he is right, a dick in me which is not moving doesn’t really satisfy me, and I really didn't have a good sex since what happened to him- but I can’t really think to go other guys, when he is in that situation because he saved me.

[Sasha0426]

So, you lied straight to his face.

[Asker]

Why i lied?

[Sasha0426]

I don’t know, you tell me. Why did you lie to him that he satisfies you? He knew all along.

[Anonymous]

He needs professional help. Like a psychiatrist.

[Staximus]

Holy shit