Does delaying to respond and not showing interest in your ex make them interested again?

[Anonymous]

[DermalPunch]

Does playing silly mind games and avoiding sincere and honest communication by feigning disinterest in your ex make them want to chase you because you are manipulating them by playing hard to get?

As annoying as it is, yes. Yes, it does. For people who are constantly bored and crave chaos to feel alive.

For me, I hate that crap.

[Asker]

Nothing else worked to get him back so I'm wondering if this will
But I also hate games and really wish it wasn't this way

[Anonymous]

It definitely depends on the kind of person. I also think, if he still wanted to be with you he would still message you (that’s if you initiated the break up). If he did it and isn’t messaging you, might be best to just leave him, he might come around at some point

[Asker]

He broke up with me but he texts me everyday about our kid
I just don't know how to get him back

[Opinion Owner]

I would find that extremely hard, because your kid will always connect you guys. May i ask why it ended?

[Asker]

All because he saw a video call with me and my other baby daddy
Which is a really lame excuse to leave and abandon your family that we made
My daughter from my previous relationship and our daughter together totally adore him
He left for the most stupid reason I could ever imagine

[OlderAndWiser]

If he is your ex, you should leave it alone and look for someone new. He is your ex, and that means it didn't work.

[Asker]

I have two kids so my chances will be hard and I actually wanted the things to work together
We had a nice relationship when the things worked
But then he left me over the smallest reason a few months ago

[OlderAndWiser]

You have two children with him?

Why did he leave?

[RawIronhide]

Sometimes, if they have an unhealthy attachment style. Typically.

[Asker]

How would I know if he has that style
He's usually anxious about things
Does that mean he has an unhealthy attachment style?

[RawIronhide]

People who struggle with co dependency issues. Seeking excessive external validation of one's own value or happiness. When it comes to attachment style none of them are unhealthy per day untill they interact with people of an opposing style the relationship dynamic can be volatile and unhealthy. Like an anxious-avoidant dynamic or I laymen's terms hot n cold games, cat n mouse. One party shows interest the other withdrawals untill the first party starts to pull away it's an unstable cycle.

[Asker]

Perfect thanks

[RawIronhide]

Sure, watch videos on it. People be out here winging this shit when there's plenty of source material.

[20yearsolder]

They are your ex, I don't understand this question at all. You broke up for some reason or another. Somebody had to be tired of somebody.

[Asker]

Your right even tho I wanted the relationship back
Your completely right

[Anonymous]

If anything they will mirror your behavior and build up resentment and most likely use you until it ends again. So just forget about it and focus on yourself and more important priorities.

[Asker]

Thanks
Since writing that question I did give up and focus my energy on another guy who is interested 🙂

[TallAnon]

Does everyone respond the exact same way as another?

[Asker]

No but do you think it will work
If you were to guess

[TallAnon]

Not for me. If I'm done with someone, I'm done with them.

[Commando_Preetam]

Sometimes it works but most of the time it hurts the person and try to do sucidial things

[Anonymous]

Personally I just want a girl to be real. If you like me, don’t pretend you don’t and vice versa.

[Anonymous]

Not showing interest tells them you are not interested. If not they will lose interest in a liar

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Lol no.

[Asker]

I just can't think of anything else that might work at this stage
Do you know anything that works?
He left me and our kid for the smallest reason ever

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

And what’s that reason?
And you shouldn’t delay the response or not show interest, you need to cut contact and only talk when necessary.

[Asker]

All because I was talking to my other ex that I also share a kid with on video call
In his opinion that's enough to leave a relationship even though we have a kid together
It was completely unfair

[Desconhecida]

It depends. Are you trying to get your ex back?

[Asker]

Yes and nothing has worked

[Desconhecida]

So, there's your first sign that he's not interested in getting back together. If you still are unsure, don't play games, try to be honest with him so if he's not wanting the same, you can move on as soon as possible.

[jahaims]

If they are as immature as the other person

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would you want to get back with an ex anyway?

[Henry_-_Blakes]

No. It won't

[In_Trance]

smh... block your ex

[kingykringy]

Nope