What made y'all end up with divorce?

[talka20]

This is for people who are not married yet and might get some help for future by seeing opinions of people that what kinda stuff can cause divorces and what kinda things should not be done for a good marriage life... ik everyone's marriage life or partener is not same but still it may help or maybe not... so those who broke up before marrying, this question is not for you guys to answer. Please do not mind ^^ Thankyou.

[itsalyssaagain]

I’ve never been married but this is my take:
- Discuss finances, personal values and children before getting married. This is very important because if you’re not on the same page life will be very difficult.
- when fighting, look at it as the 2 of u against the fight rather than 2 of u against each other. This is something my ex taught me and it’s sooooo important. That way no matter how messy the fight is you know that you want to stay together and nothing gets in the way.
- communicate everything and listen to everything.

[RandomGuy1030]

Plans only get their actual direction when rubber meets road

[itsalyssaagain]

What do you mean?

[RandomGuy1030]

Talking about what you want isn't going to do much

[itsalyssaagain]

At least you’d know you’re on the same page

[RandomGuy1030]

False confidence will get you humiliated

[sage2021]

He cheated on me

[talka20]

Oh sorry bout that

[RandomGuy1030]

You should ask why get married. Like why. Whats the psychological need. More curious about that.

[talka20]

Ik what i should ask

[dudeinohio]

I got traded in on a younger guy.

[talka20]

Wow !

[serious_miss419]

Uhm getting married is the #1 cause in divorce and marrying a guy will surely lead to a divorce.

[talka20]

Then you know nothing

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never been married