For anyone who recently just got cheated on and it ended your relationship. I know it’s tempting but don’t do it. When they comeback pretending to apologize (yes pretending), don’t give them a second chance no matter how much you still love them and want to believe they’ve changed. They haven’t. Cheaters always cheat. And I know, your probably thinking, maybe that won’t be the case, it could be different.
Well here’s my experience when I avoided listening to that warning I got from my friends.
I was in a LDR for 8 months, then suddenly he ghosted me. No goodbye. He blocked my number by Christmas Eve. It made for the worst Christmas I had ever had. It hurt so bad, I was confused, & scared. I didn’t understand what was going on. Then I tried moving on started going out on dates and talking to other people. 2 months after he had ghosted me he came back. Desperately trying to get my attention by calling my cellphone# and then my Snapchat at 3am in the morning. We talked on the phone and he “told me” what happened. He told me he started dating another girl and she was crazy and she took his phone. I desperately wanted things to work so I forgave him. BIG MISTAKE. We started dating again, months went by. We saw each other quickly once during this time. Then it started happening again. He started leaving me on read. Told me he didn’t know wether he loved me anymore or not. This conversation happened during the night so I felt neither of us were thinking straight.. so we agreed to talk about it later or forget about it. Well it never happened. And I’m desperate attempts of wanting to know what was going on I called his cell# then his Snapchat like he had done. And he blocked my number, and deleted me off Snapchat as I was trying to call him.
I can’t say I’ve ever been hurt so much before, and felt so stupid for believing him and ignoring the headed warnings from my friends and family.
So don’t do it, second chances are always more pain.
Well here’s my experience when I avoided listening to that warning I got from my friends.
I was in a LDR for 8 months, then suddenly he ghosted me. No goodbye. He blocked my number by Christmas Eve. It made for the worst Christmas I had ever had. It hurt so bad, I was confused, & scared. I didn’t understand what was going on. Then I tried moving on started going out on dates and talking to other people. 2 months after he had ghosted me he came back. Desperately trying to get my attention by calling my cellphone# and then my Snapchat at 3am in the morning. We talked on the phone and he “told me” what happened. He told me he started dating another girl and she was crazy and she took his phone. I desperately wanted things to work so I forgave him. BIG MISTAKE. We started dating again, months went by. We saw each other quickly once during this time. Then it started happening again. He started leaving me on read. Told me he didn’t know wether he loved me anymore or not. This conversation happened during the night so I felt neither of us were thinking straight.. so we agreed to talk about it later or forget about it. Well it never happened. And I’m desperate attempts of wanting to know what was going on I called his cell# then his Snapchat like he had done. And he blocked my number, and deleted me off Snapchat as I was trying to call him.
I can’t say I’ve ever been hurt so much before, and felt so stupid for believing him and ignoring the headed warnings from my friends and family.
So don’t do it, second chances are always more pain.
