My exes family hate me. They stopped him from re-conciling with me. But they watch and like some of my TikToks. Why could this be?

[Anonymous]

I (F25) ended things with my ex (M25) in January. I did so in a way which I feel was correct for the situation and my safety. His family hate me as a result. Over the course of 2021, they have known me as the girl who “makes a big deal out of small problems” (I used to cry and get worked up because I got shouted at, lied to, he deleted my Insta because he thought I was cheating, put into a love triangle and got put down constantly).

Before we broke up, and for the few months after that my ex and I were still chatting I told him about his families’ lying too.

Anyway long story short, they ended his attempts to reconcile with me in May. That’s fine. According to him, they all have very strong opinions against me.

Although the whole family’s personal accounts are blocked, why is his sister and brother in law watching my TikToks through a business account and liking them? Some of the TikToks are jokes about the breakup and they only like those.

[avony12]

I have the same exact problem. I ended it with my ex because we was on and off. They broke up with me in the past from the smallest things and I finally had my breaking point. He use to ‘punish me’ when I did things wrong and I was tired of it. In results his family hates me. Why? Because I finally stopped putting up with his bs. I blocked him on everything. I have had no contact for at least a month. I don’t plan on talking things out or anything. Let them be miserable by themselves.

[Gent207]

He talked shit about you to his family. Now do yourself a favor and move on! Block him on all apps have nothing more to do with him!

[Asker]

Is that why they’re watching?

I’ll get there, I’m curious hence asking

[Gent207]

Yes they are waiting for you to fail so they can pounce on you and verbally rip you apart

[Wise4myage]

Why do you even care? He's an ex, move on with your life.

[Asker]

Dunno, I’m curious.