Ex boyfriend wants to take baby steps to getting back together?

[Anonymous]

My ex broke up with me a few months ago and ignored me as much as I poured my heart out to him. He told me wanted to move on in his life without his past with me stopping him. I accepted it and tried to move on only to have him text me randomly to stay in his.
He booked a hotel for us to meet up the other day he treated me like dirt the entire time but showing me and telling me all about his new life going out and partying.
I took the positive approach and supported him but the same time he was acting like my boyfriend and then not if that makes sense like wanting to hug me and the rest I just don’t feel like he loves me at all. I regret meeting up with him as I feel so used and cheap.
He still doesn’t want to be with me only said to go on a few dates and see how it goes but like I told him how much I loved him and missed him and he told me nothing.
My head is so fried last night I text him saying you don’t love me and he told me did but if he did why is he being so cold with me he does nothing nice for me I had to buy him food and drinks and he demanded I pay for half of the hotel. Just I’m so hurt and it’s my own fault.
It’s like he wants a life away from me and wants to hurt me as much as he can. I just don’t know why he won’t leave me be if he doesn’t want me. He even made out with a girl in the night club and I just walked away and he said she kissed him but I watched him flirting with her he even knew her name and I still was nice to him. How much more do I have to take. I haven’t kissed anyone since he left me.

[Anonymous]

Get as FAR away as you can from him. Block him everywhere you can. He sees your vulnerability and is using it against you. It is not healthy. When I was younger, I was in a bad place. I had been talking to a guy from another country who lied to me for a year saying he loved me and wanted a future with me. He would send me pictures and talk to me often. I had no reason to believe he was lying. He came to visit me too (it was a trip he had already planned to the US and included me in his plans after we had met online). I paid for half the meals, paid half for his entrance price to activities we did together. I bought him gifts and lost my virginity to him, thinking he was serious about me. The trip seemed to go really well. But when he left, that was it. He turned cold, unfeeling. Didn’t want anything more from me. I later found out online that he was saying thar I was “easy” and how he used me to help him save money on his trip to the US. He had even slept with other girls in the US cities he visited before coming to see me. I really felt so betrayed after that. But you know what? He is immature, just like your ex. You deserve better. Block him and forget him.

[Asker]

Jesus gal I’m so sorry that had happened to you that’s horrible

[Opinion Owner]

Remember that you are never alone. Every day of the week, there are men and women being betrayed, hurt and cheated on. It doesn’t take the pain away, but knowing your not alone can help. I believe in you to overcome your situation and move on from your ex. What happened to me was horrible, but it at least helps you to grow in ways you wouldn’t otherwise.

[Gent207]

LEAVE HIM AND BLOCK HIM NOW
Seriously why are you tolerating this?

[Wise4myage]

What a jackass. You need to block him and never look back.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome and good luck.