Has someone ever broken up with you over TEXT?

[coachTanthony]

YES

Not Yet

see poll ( Don't break up with me Coach )

[DaveJord]

Well yes, but not really but it was in text. I mean I guess I have been dumped in text, but I wasn't up set about it. It wasn't any type of serious relationship and there had been a cooling off period. I only texted her to more or less confirm the status of the relationship and she texted back saying she's not interested.

Had another women I met on line, she was sketchy from the start, then on Thursday she texted me saying she had plans this weekend out of town and she would text me back on Monday. Then on Monday she texted me saying she met someone else. But we had only been on one date and I was already getting the vibe that she was seeing someone else. So it wasn't soul crushing or anything... I mean I was already talking to different women online because I didn't think it was going to work out anyway.

I never dumped anyone in text though.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup. I was a leader of a group that I guess you can call a gang or organization... and this chick I picked up and was porking suddenly tried to give me the silent treatment with the last text being pretty much "its not you its me.'

Guy trying to join the group invited me and my friend to is 'before wedding' celebration and I got to meet the fiance... which was sort of weird after I was banging her for like 2 weeks stright.

She could've just told me and it wouldn't of tripped me out when she suddenly went silent. It sucked because I thought I did something wrong. Jesus was I wrong that it was something I was doing.

[lilyanony1]

Guys don't end things they use tactics... They mess you around until you say you've had enough.
Or they ghost.
So that tells me they're cowards.

They want to be the one to leave the door open just incase they can't find what they're looking for, but they're do that in a way so that you know you shouldn't get your hopes up.

I on the other hand block or delete those peoples number and if they find a way to make contact I make it clear that they made a mistake.

[Marshymallow]

Nope! How dare they. Lol but I’m guilty of doing that. I broke up with one of my ex through text. I didn’t plan on doing that but he just wouldn’t show up to where we planned to meet. It was like he knew what I was gonna say but that didn’t stop me coz I still got another option which is “through text”.

[OlderAndWiser]

If any girl ever does that to me, I will do everything I can to outlive her so that I can go piss on her grave after the mourners have all gone home.

[MountAverage]

I think the term "breaking up" is being used way too inflationary, with people speaking of "breaking up" when referring to someone they've merely dated for a couple of weeks. Accordingly you'll hear a lot of stories of people "breaking up" over text. Not saying that doesn't happen to people in serious relationships, but most of these stories refer to just people who've dated a bit or have been "talking". It's pretty infantile.
To me, "breaking up" can only refer to actual committed relationships. And that has never happened over text to me, luckily.

[Stars12122]

Thankfully I have not yet been broken up with over text. I also make sure to breakup with people in person to give them a chance to say their peace or ask questions.

[midnightmoon05]

Yeah I did. Then I learned that from gag. I feel bad, but I really didn’t want to see the guy anymore the last time.
It seems like it would be even harder for me to go out with him again… then tell him.
of course, I could have called. So yeah, I text… lame… I know. Oh well.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's okay. There are worse things. You could have said nothing at all!

[midnightmoon05]

@Jamie05rhs I have done that as well… I learned that’s call ghosting.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yep.

[NikolasGLT]

It's the only option when you're in a long distance relationship. I've done it a couple of times and I really hate doing it. All in all it makes me stay away from long distance and focus more on what is available or for later when I will have a high paying career and easily fly to visit my girlfriend.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Lol yup. My 1st boyfriend. Broke my little 17 year old heart. And what's even worse is that it wasn't even my phone. He sent a text to my cousins phone.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, a woman broke up with me via text message. Not surprising... a few years earlier I broke up wit ha woman by sending her a text message.

[MDollarBill]

I did that once, a and have deeply regretted it ever since. I think it was a cowardly thing to do, and mean, to someone who had been so good to me. I'd give a lot to be able to have a "do-over."

[Slartybartfast]

Not yet? What about a simple no?
I'm not dating anyone ever again so there's no "not yet" and frankly if I was dating I'd definitely avoid anyone I thought was shallow and tacky enough to do something something like that.

[brezzybaby]

Hell no I tell the mfs come say it to my face. No mf is breaking up with me vis text that is just some pos bitch shit

[Iron_Man]

That’s not my style if we’re in a face-to-face relationship do it face-to-face if it’s long distance relationship then do it over the phone

[Wyldsparrow]

They tried to do that to me once. I didn't let them break up with me over text. I went to their house and told them to come outside to tell me to my face like a grown adult.

[red324]

How did that work out?

[Wyldsparrow]

They tried to get back together after they realized I was ok with the split. 🤣 I of course declined.

[Anonymous]

Yea my first relationship. It sucked. Found out he was cheating afterwards. But that happened years ago so lol.

[Guy13]

NO, thank God !!! How horrible is that. This should be an eye-eye thing. Totally without class !!

[McKellar]

Yep, once... and that was the very last girlfriend... which was about 5 years ago.

[athlete_7]

Asked for someone to call me. I knew she had been cheating on me she typed she doesn't wanna talk about it kept me hanging by saying she ll talk about it later. I did a favour for myself i blocked her. It was kinda like a brk up on text.

[Fireguy17]

No, that has never happened.
Over the phone, which was fine, I was going to make the same phone call.
She beat me to it.

[Anonymous]

No but I have. Generally it was done after a very intense conversation and one had to decide what to do, and so I knew he wasn’t going to end things…then I would over text.

[Anonymous]

When I asked him on call he said that he'll never break up with me but immediately he texted me that it's over and he's breaking up with me. What kind of person is he?

[MikeInHawaii]

I’ve quit two jobs by text. In one case, I texted a YouTube video of Johnny Paycheck singing “Take This Job and Shove It!” to the entire company.